I see this so often "why do girls automatically hate each other"
I can't speak for all girls but here's my story - A thread

Growing up , I had a bunch of girl friends , didnt help that my primary school separated girls and boys and my high-school was all girls. So in general, making friends wasnt hard really , but let me tell you , as a girl , making a friend or a best friend , that shit

Is a connection, I have experienced more heart break .. from girls whom i loved dearly , who were my "bestfriends" and iv been backstabbed , treated like shit and betrayed MORE by girls and my heart was shattered way beyond any boy could hurt me . This happened

To me , through primary school, high school and varsity, not saying im perfect obviously, we all made mistakes , but jesus .. thats alot of years of trying to be friends with people who break your heart. So eventually i starter avoiding girls. Because all iv known them to do

Is hurt me .. i dont know any different and esports scene is no different, there are girls who just hurt other girls with out thinking because they probably have been through the same damn thing. And il be the first to admit, us girls are some times

The god damn worst at resolving conflict like ignoring each other for 2 weeks is healthy?? Or being passive aggressive is healthy? No its fucking not and i learnt that, i wish i knew it sooner.

I have a fabulous, amazing group of girls im friends with now. And they more then welcome to my heart and allowed me to trust girls again and be more open and supportive of other girls. But it took me a very long time. Im still defensive because of the traumatic experiences

Iv had with woman/girls . And each woman i know has a story like mine, because 100% we can be pretty fucking despicable species. But when we love , we love with all our hearts. And we give with every thing we got . And we protect like ferocious animals.

Boys to me are way easier to befriend , they easier to talk to , they forgive almost instantly, you dont generally have to be careful how you behave because they less judgmental , mostly dont care for gossip ( dont worry i have plenty boys i can list who spill their guts)

But iv had a way better experience with guys ( yes some are just nice to get into your pants) but most men are actually genuine nice. Way less upkeep then woman. And yes iv been cheated on and broken up with and harassed by men but its way easier ..to accept

The heart break from men .. than from woman because its rare us girls find female friends who are life long friends who stick by you . Because we dont expect our friends to hurt us.. we keep our guard down , we talk about deep stuff , real stuff , dark stuff , when you open like

That and they betray you or hurt you , it just shatters your heart. So thanks if you made it this far. This is why i struggle with making friend with girls. But iv grown alot and i do genuinely love my fellow girls.. i understand why they dont all like me ( they dont know me)

But .. iv learnt that at the end of the day we all just hiding behind our own walls.