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I’ve had enough. I can’t be silent about my girlfriends ex who not only abused her, but also abused me and terrorized our friend group. I can’t hate her in silence. She’s verbally, emotionally, and sexually abusive. She was lesbophobic to her lesbian gf and friends—
- and weaponized the fact that she was demisexual to pretend she wasn’t a sexual abuser. She threatened physical violence against heather and implied heather was a cheater for breaking up with her, and that she’d beat a cheater to a pulp; that her anger was violent.
@birbcommon , you are an abuser. You sent this to our mutual friend and past DM this. This is exactly how we type and I have further screenshots to prove this is how you type. Also IP tracking exists. You’re trying to lash out at heather and I’s friends in an attempt to isolate
After heather broke up with her, she tried to go to our friend and lie about what happened. Heather and I tried to make this as easy as we could. We never invalidated her. I called her out for verbally abusing and she in turn tried to isolate me from my close friends
This is less than 24 hours later and she tried to back pedal. We told nick abt what happened before and he did not respond, so this is what she sent when she realized no one was on her side
Multiple times, Celine verbally abused me and intentionally tried to trigger me and make me cry on group calls. She would only stop when our friends would call her out. She’d then switch to being polite, apologizing, and then act like I was delusional and it wasn’t ‘that bad’
She didnt even try to have a friendship with me until she started getting a hunch that I mightve liked heather.I knew heather was in a relationship and made no advances.I respected their relationship even though I believed crime was verbally abusive to heather, like she was to me
She constantly called heather stupid, an idiot, so dumb, etc. she’d laugh at her and make heather’s mental health about her. There were times heather would have mental breakdowns and was not mentally in a place to consent. She would then coerce heather into consenting-
—TW/ rape and she then sexually assaulted heather after forcing her to consent. All because she couldn’t take someone having worse mental health than her. She always felt she had to be the most oppressed and mentally ill, and would invalidate heathers mental health.
Heather was so used to her being so awful that when she first told that story,she thought it was just a thing your partner does.That it was her fault that Celine did that to her. She’d constantly make heather believe that the abuse she received was her fault, that she deserved it
She would frequently weaponize drunk texting to corner you and make you apologize for her abuse. This cake after she caused me to have a mental breakdown after intentionally triggering me, and only stopping after others called her out.
During this event,she also drunk texted one of my closest friends,one who she knew had trauma with alcohol and people.Said friend was also the one who called her out on intentionally triggering me and abusing me,so she weaponized her trauma to try to silence her by triggering her
All of this led up to the point that her and heather ended up taking a break so that when they broke up it would be a clean breakup. During that time she verbally assaulted heather for offering to bring her a treat from the bakery that her mother got.
She expected heather to still be her girlfriend, but when heather at her mothers bidding offered to bring her her favorite desert because her mom had extra, Celine decided to verbally assault heather and caused a panic attack
She continued to guilt trip me me and gaslight heather for a two week period up until she threatened to beat the shit out of heather and heather finally broke up with her. She then tried to gaslight me and lie about heather because if she couldnt own heather,no one could love her
She tried to tell me she was looking out for me all while she was telling heather that I was a “weaker version of her(Celine) that hadn’t gotten the help I need.” Once again she implied I was delusional and severely mentally ill, while she was the “rational” one
She then tried to call me after I implied I knew what she was doing and what she had said. I still hadn’t told her that I saw what she said, but implied I knew, and she instantly tried to reverse what she said. This is what I sent
Here is her backpedaling. Here she tried to call me and tell me that heather was ‘toxic’ because heather would ask her to participate in their relationship. Asking her partner not to emotionally neglect her was considered abuse and toxic in Celine’s eyes.
She tried to claim that she asked heather’s childhood friend to vouch for her and that he agreed, which was also a lie. She also brought people with her on this call to try to outnumber me and intimidate me. I stood my ground and called her out for doing this—
- and she got extremely aggressive, spoke over me, insulted me, and belittled my intelligence. When she realized I didn’t buy her lies she quickly ended the call. I then sent her this message and then got blocked on every platform for bringing up how she abused me
Heather and I immediately cut all contact and so did our friends. We just wanted this abuser out of our life. Celine, however, continued to post about heather and I. She once again rationalizes her abuse and anger issues so she’s the victim
More subposting. She would also obsessively stalk my blog to see what I was up to. I assume she did the same to heather as she sent an ask to heather saying she ‘betrayed’ “””former gf””” bc she couldn’t bring herself to acknowledge she was heather’s ex.
The only times I have reached out to her or even checked any of her social media was to send her this after heather had a breakdown hysterically sobbing about all the abuse she suffered from Celine and that it took her so long to admit she was in an abusive relationship
And then when I lashed out today. I could’ve worded this better, but I was so mad at her trying to attack one of my closest friends that I lost my cool. However, I don’t owe an abuser civility in the first place.
I also believe she sent this(what started this thread and what made me lose my shit) while in a drunken rage, because this is how she types when drinking, and she impulse hate messages people because she’s an angry and violent drunk.
