I have nothing to say about Jen Hatmaker’s divorce. I admire her work and as someone who went through a divorce in the recent past I have the utmost compassion for what they’re going through. But BOY OH BOY do I have something to say about the people TALKING about her divorce rn.

First of all, the violent, death-dealing homophobia of evangelical Christianity is just LEAPING out rn. “I don’t agree with Jen on everything but I feel bad for what she’s going through” FRIENDS. We all know “I don’t agree with Jen on everything” is about The Gayzhttps://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="™️" title="Registered-Trade-Mark-Symbol" aria-label="Emoji: Registered-Trade-Mark-Symbol">

If you can’t express compassion for someone else without first reminding them and everyone else that you “don’t agree with them on everything” perhaps consider that your homophobia might be a more important value to you than your “Christian compassion”

Second of all, J*lie R*ys had the fucking nerve to post about this on Friday night apparently? And if anyone snitch tags her into the replies you will get an automatic block, snitches get stitches & I don’t fuck with people who refuse to use the correct pronouns for queer folks.

But J*lie R*ys, who has attempted to build her platform on the back of #ChurchToo masquerading as an ally to victims and an advocate for women all while promoting homophobia & purity culture, “broke” the story before Jen went public. What the ever living fuck.

I hope that those of you who previous to now amplified J*lie’s work because you actually agreed with her on how to treat us queer folk will finally take this opportunity to see her toxic, self-serving “journalism” for what it is.

No one’s divorce is your “gotcha” moment, assholes