I have nothing to say about Jen Hatmaker’s divorce. I admire her work and as someone who went through a divorce in the recent past I have the utmost compassion for what they’re going through. But BOY OH BOY do I have something to say about the people TALKING about her divorce rn.
First of all, the violent, death-dealing homophobia of evangelical Christianity is just LEAPING out rn. “I don’t agree with Jen on everything but I feel bad for what she’s going through” FRIENDS. We all know “I don’t agree with Jen on everything” is about The Gayz

If you can’t express compassion for someone else without first reminding them and everyone else that you “don’t agree with them on everything” perhaps consider that your homophobia might be a more important value to you than your “Christian compassion”
Second of all, J*lie R*ys had the fucking nerve to post about this on Friday night apparently? And if anyone snitch tags her into the replies you will get an automatic block, snitches get stitches & I don’t fuck with people who refuse to use the correct pronouns for queer folks.
But J*lie R*ys, who has attempted to build her platform on the back of #ChurchToo masquerading as an ally to victims and an advocate for women all while promoting homophobia & purity culture, “broke” the story before Jen went public. What the ever living fuck.
I hope that those of you who previous to now amplified J*lie’s work because you actually agreed with her on how to treat us queer folk will finally take this opportunity to see her toxic, self-serving “journalism” for what it is.
No one’s divorce is your “gotcha” moment, assholes