Thread by @FrankMwiyaM_JR, 𝕄𝕐 𝕊𝕋ℝ𝕌𝔾𝔾𝕃𝔼𝕊 𝔸𝕊 𝔸 𝟚𝟙 𝕐𝔼𝔸ℝ 𝕆𝕃𝔻 𝕄𝔸𝕃𝔼 𝕍𝕀ℝ𝔾𝕀ℕ.Apart from being called [...]

𝕄𝕐 𝕊𝕋ℝ𝕌𝔾𝔾𝕃𝔼𝕊 𝔸𝕊 𝔸 𝟚𝟙 𝕐𝔼𝔸ℝ 𝕆𝕃𝔻 𝕄𝔸𝕃𝔼 𝕍𝕀ℝ𝔾𝕀ℕ.

Apart from being called a loser?

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1. "Are you gay or scared of girls?"
2. "Do you want to have sex?"
3. "How do you survive?"
4. "Are you afraid of STIs?"
5. "WHY ARE YOU A VIRGIN?"
1/23

Idk if this will make some people feel uncomfortable but I felt I should share this.

I'm not going to waste this thread tweeting with the intention of receiving sympathy or admiration.I don't regret nor am I ashamed of my decision & I don't consider myself to be superior to anyone

This is just me honestly addressing the questions above,from my point of view.2/24

1. I'm not afraid of girls but I have suffered with anxiety from an early age due to various incidents as a child that affected me emotionally and nearly annihilated my self-esteem. One such occasional incident was when I was about 6/7 and these older boys in my neighborhood 3/23

Would chase me around and make fun of how small my penis was, they would go as far as pulling of my pants and I would fight back before crying.& yes it's bigger now in case you were wondering

. Nonetheless this affected me so much that I feel uncomfortable using the urinal 4/23

And most often use the toilet pot rather

Honestly my size would be the least of my worries if I wanted to have sex, I've been told that...

NVM

I'm not scared of girls at all I'm actually more open to females 5/23

Than I am to males because I grew up with a single mom most of my life so I'm more comfortable with ladies at least that's how I feel. So am I gay? Before I even answer this question I have to say this is the most stupid question to ask anyone because they aren't having sex 6/23

As in you mean all gay people are Virgins? 7/23

Anyways I'm not gay. 8/23

2. Honestly? YES
I don't even know if there are people out there who never want to have sex ever, I don't even think all celibate people don't ,they may have taken the decision not to but hey! do all vegetarians really never ever ever think of...

NVM

they don't

9/23

I do want to have sex one day with the love of my life. MARRIED.

10/23

3. How do I survive?
I don't. Honestly the moment you have to survive from anything it's because you are vulnerable, and when it comes to sex you only become vulnerable to sex if you have placed yourself in the position to be vulnerable. Who do you talk with and about what? 11/23

Who do you hang with? What do you watch? What do you read? What do you think about? Whatever seed you sow will bear fruit.

Incase you haven't figured it out yet, I'm a born again believer and this particular question is difficult to answer but putting away pride here goes 12/23

I don't know if this disqualifies me from being a virgin not that I even care anyways but moving on...I used to watch porn & indulged in masturbation. I was a "christian" while I did all this and I felt like I had the right to do this as a way of surviving the "greater sin" 13/23

How stupid of me considering the fact that in doing that I had already committed the same sin. So does this mean I should just go on and have sex since I've already watched porn? Erh u don't sin because u have sinned, rather u seek for Jesus to redeem you 14/23

Fast forward after rededicating my life to Christ I have never watched porn again BUT! I had still struggled with masturbation for a while and it took constant resistance and prayer & it's something I still battle with in my mind and want to fast against soon 15/23

16/23

So I'm not going to point fingers and say don't judge me cause you still have sex, or u still lie, u like gossiping, u still drink, u have anger issues and bitterness. That's nonsense, sin is sin and one of the best ways to fight sin is to confess it! Not compare it! 17/23

So I don't survive, I depend on Jesus and ask Him everyday to strengthen me until when I'm in the position to have a wife and then a family. Jesus is my source of strength and the Bible is my survival guide 18/23

4. I've never met anyone who actually wants to have an STI... 19/23

Still not why I haven't had sex yet but it's still motivation

20/23

5.Well, honestly it's not just about me, it's about God it's about Jesus. Everyday I live I try my best to live righteously so it's very difficult for at the level I am in my faith right now to go out looking for sex knowing very well that I'd be communicating a sin. 21/23

I have learned that the best way to avoid sin is to avoid sin situations. So I make sure that my space is clean.
If u are struggling with sexual sin and want to stop so badly, go down on your knees everyday and ask God to forgive you in the name of Jesus and if 22/23

You haven't, go on and ask Him to come into your life so that you will be saved and receive eternal life. We are all running and fighting something, but only Jesus can save us.
It's okay to be a virgin bro/ sis, don't be discouraged. It's the best decision. 23/23

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