"bisexual women shouldnt feel ashamed of their attraction to men" and "lesbians are allowed to take pride in and celebrate their lack of attraction to men" are two things that can and should coexist without issue

saying shit like "being a lesbian is about LOVING WOMEN its not about NOT LOVING MENhttps://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="😌" title="Erleichtertes Gesicht" aria-label="Emoji: Erleichtertes Gesicht">" is lesbophobic. lesbianism is about both and you know it

saying shit like that is quite literally criticizing and ridiculing lesbians for speaking of their lack of male attraction as if its some flaw and something we should feel bad about

if a gay man said something along the lines of "im so glad i dont love women i love only loving men!" i wouldnt take offense to that because of course they feel that way theyre a gay man like wtf these things should not feel like an attack to you