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I had a nightmare that my boyfriend was cheating on me because I allowed myself to tap into this memory before bed last night. This experience did a number on me & I hadn’t even realized
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Anyway, @BadvocateNje here’s the story:
It was during that dark time on Facebook when the wretched app would let you know where so and so had commented, so a notification about this one’s activity pops up & it looks interesting, so naturally, I follow the trail...
It was during that dark time on Facebook when the wretched app would let you know where so and so had commented, so a notification about this one’s activity pops up & it looks interesting, so naturally, I follow the trail...
We’d been seeing each other for about a year or so, so I was quite deep into ‘regte’ mode mos https://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="🤡" title="Clownsgesicht" aria-label="Emoji: Clownsgesicht">. Guy is quite popular with the ladies on the FB streets; successful lawyer, witty, great cook, funny etc & I’m experiencing major insecurity and jealousy...
Anyway, I digress... so I follow the trail and this girl has posted a gorgeous picture of herself with a teddybear, and there’s a back and forth exchange between herself and my guy about the naming of the teddy... I don’t want to remember the exact details of the convo...
But I remember him being referred to as the father of that teddy, and general flirtation that occurs between two people who know each other intimately, I think at some point there was even talk of moving the conversation to inbox due to its heated nature...
I had palpitations that dayhttps://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="😭" title="Laut schreiendes Gesicht" aria-label="Emoji: Laut schreiendes Gesicht"> But I thought I was imagining things, you know? (First stage of grief), lowkey blamed myself for snooping and got stuck with not knowing what to do about the overwhelming info, settled on confronting moguy, and of course: ‘nope, she’s just a fren’
Days go by, notifications keep popping up, the girl is also getting bolder on guy’s status updates, he switches to neutral mode now because he knows I’m https://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="👀" title="Augen" aria-label="Emoji: Augen">, but not the kind of neutral that’s completely innocent... there’s still mild flirts between the two of them,
I think I saw his neutrality and stupidly decided in my head that he really was innocent in all of this, that the girl was the one pursuing him and he was just playing along (when I tell you I have been a clownhttps://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="🤡" title="Clownsgesicht" aria-label="Emoji: Clownsgesicht">https://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="🤡" title="Clownsgesicht" aria-label="Emoji: Clownsgesicht">).
Lmfao, so my poor boyfran is being aggressively pursued and I feel it is my responsibility to fend off thirsty Facebook girls on his timelinehttps://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="😂" title="Gesicht mit Freudentränen" aria-label="Emoji: Gesicht mit Freudentränen">https://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="😂" title="Gesicht mit Freudentränen" aria-label="Emoji: Gesicht mit Freudentränen">what do I do? I pull a woman to woman deep inside that girl’s inbox...
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Dear reader
That girl munches me with her Blackberry, sends the munch to our man and politely asks him to deal with his delusional sidechicks, because personally, she’s too busy and generally respects herself too much to bother with Facebook nonsense.
She never once said a word to me (directly), only threw a couple of jabs via status updates where she and her friends laughed themselves sillyhttps://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="😭" title="Laut schreiendes Gesicht" aria-label="Emoji: Laut schreiendes Gesicht">
What hurt me was receiving a stern message from the guy telling me I should leave that girl alone, & by extension, him too.
What hurt me was receiving a stern message from the guy telling me I should leave that girl alone, & by extension, him too.
He didn’t even say a lot of things, just ‘please x alone and I’d appreciate it if you stopped texting/calling me as well, thanks’ and he unfriended me. I remember seeing their exchanges moving on & they resumed their happy couple life as though nothing had happenedhttps://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="🤣" title="Lachend auf dem Boden rollen" aria-label="Emoji: Lachend auf dem Boden rollen">
I’d been with this man for a year, guys! A year! But the way he told me off like I was some random creep from the internet?https://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="😭" title="Laut schreiendes Gesicht" aria-label="Emoji: Laut schreiendes Gesicht">https://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="💔" title="Gebrochenes Herz" aria-label="Emoji: Gebrochenes Herz">
Anyway, a few months later, he came back and we hit it off once againhttps://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="😭" title="Laut schreiendes Gesicht" aria-label="Emoji: Laut schreiendes Gesicht">https://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="🤡" title="Clownsgesicht" aria-label="Emoji: Clownsgesicht"> https://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="🤡" title="Clownsgesicht" aria-label="Emoji: Clownsgesicht">
Anyway, a few months later, he came back and we hit it off once again
I loved that man more than I loved myself because whatever we had going on, lasted for quite a while before I eventually decided to choose myself and leave that toxic narcissist, so ja, there’s my clown story.
