not @ my mother trying to convince me it was Ok for white people to say the n word in some contexts
not @ my mother telling me my opinion that 'white people shouldn't say the n word ever' was just One Perspective. and other people might have Different
Perspectives


not @ my mother telling me i shouldn't have been upset at the boys, and my father, joking about an exposed woman in star wars.
not @ my mother being subtly racist on a somewhat regular basis
not @ my father laughing and thinking olivers transphobic jokes are funny. not @ my father calling me sensitive and that i should 'learn to laugh sometimes' when im Upset
not @ my parents and that time they hid my things and wouldnt tell me even when i broke down crying thinking i was going insane as things weren't where i left them