not @ my mother trying to convince me it was Ok for white people to say the n word in some contexts

not @ my mother telling me my opinion that & #39;white people shouldn& #39;t say the n word ever& #39; was just One Perspective. and other people might have Different https://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="✨" title="Funken" aria-label="Emoji: Funken">Perspectiveshttps://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="✨" title="Funken" aria-label="Emoji: Funken">

not @ my mother telling me i shouldn& #39;t have been upset at the boys, and my father, joking about an exposed woman in star wars.

not @ my mother being subtly racist on a somewhat regular basis

not @ my father laughing and thinking olivers transphobic jokes are funny. not @ my father calling me sensitive and that i should & #39;learn to laugh sometimes& #39; when im Upset

not @ my parents and that time they hid my things and wouldnt tell me even when i broke down crying thinking i was going insane as things weren& #39;t where i left them