this is a really good thread that reaches into the past without disrespecting the real feelings of Black trans people in 2020.

multiple things can be true at the same time, and one of them is that it is possible to try and be kind to Black trans people. https://twitter.com/sarah_ogun/status/1302771191984410626

also in conversation with this thread, i sometimes catch my misogyny when i am more likely to use "girl" when i am about to insult someone or call them out.

i'm very very rarely a "hey girl, what's up" type of person, and i am too often a "girl, stfu" person when "stfu" suffices