Struggling to explain to your parents why you don’t think college is necessary to be successful?
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- They’ve simply been conditioned to think this way over the years
- Similar to how people get stuck in the rat race they think what they’re doing is normal
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- They’ve simply been conditioned to think this way over the years
- Similar to how people get stuck in the rat race they think what they’re doing is normal
In psychology I’ve learned about the idea of positive reinforcement
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- Positive reinforcement is giving someone something when they do what they’re supposed to do!
- Example you get a good grade on a test and your parents give you money to keep this behavior up
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- Positive reinforcement is giving someone something when they do what they’re supposed to do!
- Example you get a good grade on a test and your parents give you money to keep this behavior up
When you relate this to college parents think this is the only way to success!
- This is because it’s the most realistic way in a lot of people’s eyes if you don’t have a true talent
- When successful people you know went to college you automatically begin to associate them
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- This is because it’s the most realistic way in a lot of people’s eyes if you don’t have a true talent
- When successful people you know went to college you automatically begin to associate them
Parents have projected these views onto their kids and made them go into a lot of debt
- To change their opinions you have to show them that the world has changed and we have so many more avenues to wealth!
- When things seem more attainable they will have faith in you
- To change their opinions you have to show them that the world has changed and we have so many more avenues to wealth!
- When things seem more attainable they will have faith in you
This will be difficult because your parents are kind of already programmed
- Your parents have been trained over the years to associate no college with doing nothing
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- Show them a plan and actually work towards it daily and watch how much they start supporting you!
- Your parents have been trained over the years to associate no college with doing nothing
- Show them a plan and actually work towards it daily and watch how much they start supporting you!
Thank you for checking out this thread and I hope it helped!
Not only to get your parents to understand your point of view but also so you can understand there’s!
Have a blessed day and RT if it gave you some new insight!
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Not only to get your parents to understand your point of view but also so you can understand there’s!
Have a blessed day and RT if it gave you some new insight!