How to make sure your girlfriend is on the same page as you https://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="📖" title="Offenes Buch" aria-label="Emoji: Offenes Buch"> https://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="✨" title="Funken" aria-label="Emoji: Funken">

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I& #39;ll try not to make this too spiritual but I think it& #39;s super important for couples to understand what they are https://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="🧙‍♂️" title="Männlicher Magier" aria-label="Emoji: Männlicher Magier">https://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="🧙‍♀️" title="Weiblicher Magier" aria-label="Emoji: Weiblicher Magier">https://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="🔮" title="Kristallkugel" aria-label="Emoji: Kristallkugel">

When my man first told me some of these things I thought he was nuts https://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="🥜" title="Erdnüsse" aria-label="Emoji: Erdnüsse">

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1. Know why we are here https://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="🌏" title="Asien-Australien auf dem Globus" aria-label="Emoji: Asien-Australien auf dem Globus">https://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="🌍" title="Europa-Afrika auf dem Globus" aria-label="Emoji: Europa-Afrika auf dem Globus">https://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="🌎" title="Amerika auf dem Globus" aria-label="Emoji: Amerika auf dem Globus">

I don& #39;t know the exact details but it seems like we are here to learn the lessons that we need to https://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="👩‍🏫" title="Woman teacher" aria-label="Emoji: Woman teacher">

So if you& #39;ve cheated or been cheated on, you were supposed to do that but hopefully you learned from it? https://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="🤔" title="Denkendes Gesicht" aria-label="Emoji: Denkendes Gesicht">

We are here to grow! https://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="🌱" title="Setzling" aria-label="Emoji: Setzling">https://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="🌲" title="Immergrüner Baum" aria-label="Emoji: Immergrüner Baum">

2. Our reality is all about duality https://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="☯️" title="Yin und Yang" aria-label="Emoji: Yin und Yang">

We have masculine and feminine as the best example. https://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="🤴" title="Prinz" aria-label="Emoji: Prinz">https://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="👸" title="Prinzessin" aria-label="Emoji: Prinzessin">

We also have the sun and the moon https://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="☀️" title="Sonne mit Strahlen" aria-label="Emoji: Sonne mit Strahlen">https://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="🌑" title="Neumond" aria-label="Emoji: Neumond">

And many other examples!

The real reason to start a relationship goes even deeper than having children https://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="🤰" title="Schwangere Frau" aria-label="Emoji: Schwangere Frau">

Which is still super important...

The real reason to start a relationship is so that 2 can become 1. (I know it sounds so cheesey https://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="🤮" title="Spuckendes Gesicht" aria-label="Emoji: Spuckendes Gesicht">)

But this is about balancing your masculinity with an equally feminine us https://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="😇" title="Lächelndes Gesicht mit Heiligenschein" aria-label="Emoji: Lächelndes Gesicht mit Heiligenschein">

You do away with the duality and become just one thing! https://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="🌌" title="Milky Way" aria-label="Emoji: Milky Way"> (in theory)

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But this isn& #39;t the same as "needing" somebody like a desperate person does https://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="😬" title="Grimasse schneidendes Gesicht" aria-label="Emoji: Grimasse schneidendes Gesicht">

You form a relationship with this in mind and not for the usual reasons like:

• Just sex
• Just company
• Just for validation

Those things are superficial https://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="😒" title="Unerfreutes Gesicht" aria-label="Emoji: Unerfreutes Gesicht">

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3. You need to see how receptable we are to these kinds of topics https://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="🙉" title="Nichts hören-Affe" aria-label="Emoji: Nichts hören-Affe">

Rather than preach new ideas to people, it& #39;s always best if they think they came to that idea themselves https://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="😅" title="Lächelndes Gesicht mit offenem Mund und Angstschweiß" aria-label="Emoji: Lächelndes Gesicht mit offenem Mund und Angstschweiß">https://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="😂" title="Gesicht mit Freudentränen" aria-label="Emoji: Gesicht mit Freudentränen">

So you could say "isn& #39;t it weird how we balance each other out with our masculinity/femininity?"...

And then guage our response to see how open minded we are to your crazy ramblings https://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="🤪" title="Zany face" aria-label="Emoji: Zany face">

If we have a spark in us it should make us think and ask you questions about it. https://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="🧐" title="Gesicht mit Monokel" aria-label="Emoji: Gesicht mit Monokel">

If instead, we get mad or just totally dismiss you, then we aren& #39;t spiritually ready to learn yet https://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="🤷‍♀️" title="Achselzuckende Frau" aria-label="Emoji: Achselzuckende Frau">

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4. Once we both know why we& #39;re here and why we are a couple, then the magic can happen https://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="🧙‍♂️" title="Männlicher Magier" aria-label="Emoji: Männlicher Magier">https://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="🧙‍♀️" title="Weiblicher Magier" aria-label="Emoji: Weiblicher Magier">https://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="✨" title="Funken" aria-label="Emoji: Funken">

This is when it becomes the 2 of you vs the world and you have a secret club https://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="⚜" title="Wappen-Lilie" aria-label="Emoji: Wappen-Lilie">https://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="🏛" title="Gebäude im Klassischen Stil" aria-label="Emoji: Gebäude im Klassischen Stil">

You& #39;ll both realise that what average couples do is beneath you, but not in a snobby way https://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="😅" title="Lächelndes Gesicht mit offenem Mund und Angstschweiß" aria-label="Emoji: Lächelndes Gesicht mit offenem Mund und Angstschweiß">

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• Cheating https://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="😡" title="Schmollendes Gesicht" aria-label="Emoji: Schmollendes Gesicht">
• Arguing https://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="🤬" title="Gesicht mit Symbolen über dem Mund" aria-label="Emoji: Gesicht mit Symbolen über dem Mund">
• Playing emotional games https://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="😒" title="Unerfreutes Gesicht" aria-label="Emoji: Unerfreutes Gesicht">
• Chasing pure materialism https://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="💰" title="Geldsack" aria-label="Emoji: Geldsack">

These things are distractions and disturb the safe and peaceful harbour that is your relationship https://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="⛵" title="Segelboot" aria-label="Emoji: Segelboot">

You both understand that you& #39;re a team and have come together to make your lives easier

You aren& #39;t each other& #39;s accessory https://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="😃" title="Lächelndes Gesicht mit geöffnetem Mund" aria-label="Emoji: Lächelndes Gesicht mit geöffnetem Mund">

The man fulfills he masculine role https://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="💪" title="Angespannter Bizeps" aria-label="Emoji: Angespannter Bizeps">

The woman fullfills her feminine role https://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="💃" title="Woman dancing" aria-label="Emoji: Woman dancing">

And when brought together you make a whole greater than the sum of its parts! https://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="☯️" title="Yin und Yang" aria-label="Emoji: Yin und Yang">

So when we are constantly told that men just want to use us and leave us or that we are just going to "divorce rape" you, it divides us https://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="🙄" title="Gesicht mit rollenden Augen" aria-label="Emoji: Gesicht mit rollenden Augen">

The people who act this way don& #39;t understand what some people call "The Great Arcanum" https://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="⚕" title="Äskulapstab" aria-label="Emoji: Äskulapstab">

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Of course there are silly men and women who will do horrible things to each other and we should avoid those people https://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="🤚" title="Erhobener Handrücken" aria-label="Emoji: Erhobener Handrücken">

But relationships become super easy when you both know you& #39;re a team! https://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="🕺" title="Tanzender Mann" aria-label="Emoji: Tanzender Mann">https://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="💃" title="Woman dancing" aria-label="Emoji: Woman dancing">

Don& #39;t listen to the people who want you in fear about the opposite sex!! https://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="😬" title="Grimasse schneidendes Gesicht" aria-label="Emoji: Grimasse schneidendes Gesicht">

5. Live a wonderful life together https://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="✨" title="Funken" aria-label="Emoji: Funken">

This knowledge lets you build a strong castle that you can live inside https://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="🏰" title="Europäisches Schloss" aria-label="Emoji: Europäisches Schloss">

And the outside world fizzles away whilst you& #39;re inside having all kinds of fun https://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="😇" title="Lächelndes Gesicht mit Heiligenschein" aria-label="Emoji: Lächelndes Gesicht mit Heiligenschein">https://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="😈" title="Lächelndes Gesicht mit Hörnern" aria-label="Emoji: Lächelndes Gesicht mit Hörnern">

The castle walls allow you to forget about betrayal, infidelity and envy...

So that inside you can experiment fully with your bodies https://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="🥳" title="Partying face" aria-label="Emoji: Partying face">

Or safely raise a sane, strong, healthy family! https://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="🤴" title="Prinz" aria-label="Emoji: Prinz">https://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="👸" title="Prinzessin" aria-label="Emoji: Prinzessin">https://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="🧒" title="Kind" aria-label="Emoji: Kind">https://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="🧒" title="Kind" aria-label="Emoji: Kind">

Get rid of all your negative beliefs about relationships and just turn us into a crazy spiritual person like me https://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="🤣" title="Lachend auf dem Boden rollen" aria-label="Emoji: Lachend auf dem Boden rollen">

But I mean it, this knowledge is powerful https://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="😎" title="Lächelndes Gesicht mit Sonnenbrille" aria-label="Emoji: Lächelndes Gesicht mit Sonnenbrille">

I want you all to have the happiest, sanest, loveliest and most peaceful but exciting relationships possible https://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="🥳" title="Partying face" aria-label="Emoji: Partying face">

And I really hope this thread has given you some ideas and topics to think about https://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="😇" title="Lächelndes Gesicht mit Heiligenschein" aria-label="Emoji: Lächelndes Gesicht mit Heiligenschein">

Life is amazing! Cherish it https://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="🥰" title="Smiling face with 3 hearts" aria-label="Emoji: Smiling face with 3 hearts">

Do you have any questions? https://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="🤔" title="Denkendes Gesicht" aria-label="Emoji: Denkendes Gesicht">