How to make sure your girlfriend is on the same page as you

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I'll try not to make this too spiritual but I think it's super important for couples to understand what they are

When my man first told me some of these things I thought he was nuts

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1. Know why we are here

I don't know the exact details but it seems like we are here to learn the lessons that we need to

So if you've cheated or been cheated on, you were supposed to do that but hopefully you learned from it?

We are here to grow!

2. Our reality is all about duality

We have masculine and feminine as the best example.

We also have the sun and the moon

And many other examples!

The real reason to start a relationship goes even deeper than having children

Which is still super important...

The real reason to start a relationship is so that 2 can become 1. (I know it sounds so cheesey )

But this is about balancing your masculinity with an equally feminine us

You do away with the duality and become just one thing! (in theory)

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But this isn't the same as "needing" somebody like a desperate person does

You form a relationship with this in mind and not for the usual reasons like:

• Just sex
• Just company
• Just for validation

Those things are superficial

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3. You need to see how receptable we are to these kinds of topics

Rather than preach new ideas to people, it's always best if they think they came to that idea themselves

So you could say "isn't it weird how we balance each other out with our masculinity/femininity?"...

And then guage our response to see how open minded we are to your crazy ramblings

If we have a spark in us it should make us think and ask you questions about it.

If instead, we get mad or just totally dismiss you, then we aren't spiritually ready to learn yet

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4. Once we both know why we're here and why we are a couple, then the magic can happen

This is when it becomes the 2 of you vs the world and you have a secret club

You'll both realise that what average couples do is beneath you, but not in a snobby way

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• Cheating
• Arguing
• Playing emotional games
• Chasing pure materialism

These things are distractions and disturb the safe and peaceful harbour that is your relationship

You both understand that you're a team and have come together to make your lives easier

You aren't each other's accessory

The man fulfills he masculine role

The woman fullfills her feminine role

And when brought together you make a whole greater than the sum of its parts!

So when we are constantly told that men just want to use us and leave us or that we are just going to "divorce rape" you, it divides us

The people who act this way don't understand what some people call "The Great Arcanum"

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Of course there are silly men and women who will do horrible things to each other and we should avoid those people

But relationships become super easy when you both know you're a team!

Don't listen to the people who want you in fear about the opposite sex!!

5. Live a wonderful life together

This knowledge lets you build a strong castle that you can live inside

And the outside world fizzles away whilst you're inside having all kinds of fun

The castle walls allow you to forget about betrayal, infidelity and envy...

So that inside you can experiment fully with your bodies

Or safely raise a sane, strong, healthy family!

Get rid of all your negative beliefs about relationships and just turn us into a crazy spiritual person like me

But I mean it, this knowledge is powerful

I want you all to have the happiest, sanest, loveliest and most peaceful but exciting relationships possible

And I really hope this thread has given you some ideas and topics to think about

Life is amazing! Cherish it

Do you have any questions?