How to become a high value man by 2021.

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Before October comes, this thread will guide you to prepare yourself in identifying your values, prioritising them in a hierarchical structure,

orient yourself on a path of least resistance and start making sacrifices to obtain them,

transforming you into a man of value.

Write down your values.

For a man, your apex value should be abundance.

You must attain it, or at least be on a path that will lead to its attainment.

If you are too distracted in your pursuit of women and indulgences,

stop reading here.

What does it mean to attain your apex value on a path of least resistance?

It means you will orient yourself in a strategic manner that will lessen as many obstacles in your way of attaining your value.

Your choices & time allocation will be devoted to this value.

This means to count your moves.

To make moves in the form of sacrifices, strictly related to your apex value.

Moves that negotiate with the future and force your apex value to come to you.

Count each one, & stay on the path.

You will achieve abundance in two ways;

1. Leverage Competence

2. Begin your own start up

To leverage competence, you will first need to take stock of your current job description, pinpoint what you’re expected to do & what you get paid for.

Then, you will seek to deliver your job description at an exceptional level.

You will leave no room for negligence or incompetence. You will not worry about recognition,

and aim to perfect what you are required to do.

When ready, you will leverage your perfection, to uptake more responsibility+authority, not money.

You will negotiate that you currently do ABC for X amount,

but you are willing to do ABCDE for 2 months, and if you deliver,

you will rightfully request positional ascendency.

When you become exceptional in your line of work, you create specific-knowledge-like asymmetry.

Any asymmetry you create in your favour, can be leveraged.

Exchange the value you generate easily, for the value you want.

When I worked as a pharmacist, I dispensed at 30 seconds per medication, when others took 10min.

I leveraged this to reduce staff, then leveraged to implement systems for cost efficiency, which made me a manager, & leveraged for corporate.

Study the scenario, find the leverage.

While you exercise this, you will record, print weekly reports of every sale, every profit, every satisfied customer under your name and construct an impeccable CV.

So when the bosses don’t play nice, you can leverage this as a threat.

If you are successful in your promotion, repeat the process. Find leverage in your new found responsibilities.

You are not pursuing more money.

You are pursuing more responsibility and authority.

Money will come after.

Leverage competence for positional power.

Your competence in your job should be part of the system.

You do not want your competence to self-automate in your absence.

You want to become so good at what you do, that the business falls apart without you.

Generate reliance to cement your leverage. Avoid redundancy.

Option 2 is start up. If you want to start your own business, in my opinion it is a brutal path to take.

HAVE a stable job before taking the risk in going for a startup. You must maintain a stable income stream for this option.

You are NOT an entrepreneur if you are not making weekly progress.

If you want to start your own business, you MUST have a clear deadline for weekly action & progress.

Investors check progress, worth ethic & personality before investing.

Your journey to abundance will kill off so many undesirable parts of you, that you will inevitably transform who you are.

You’ll be forced to become strategic, think ahead, be cunning and ambitious.

A force to contend with.

If you don’t become disagreeable in your quest for abundance, you are not devoting enough time for your apex value:

-you come first
-competitive
-less social
-assertive
-insubordinate
-value driven
-time conscious

unconcerned for anything petty & frivolous.

These qualities developed as a side effect in your path to abundance,

are the traits that make you attractive.

Combine this with your capacity to provide, your accountability & competence,

it makes you a high value man.

Your aim before October

1. Acknowledge apex value as abundance
2. Pinpoint the position you are seeking.
3. Pinpoint your path towards it
4. Pinpoint your job description
4. Write down how to excel in it
5. Plan on how you’ll leverage it once excelled

By 2021, you should have improved your current position and developed,

-Responsibility
-Confidence
-Authority
-Credibility
-Leadership
-Disagreeableness

Don’t stop. You’re set to dominate 2021.

The lesson in this thread is to understand leverage.

When you become exceptionally competent in one domain,

you can leverage it on the dominance hierarchy and ultimately increase your value.

This lesson can be applied to many contexts.

Other relevant information. On breaking rules. https://twitter.com/unmodernm/status/1283391304991293441?s=21

On personal power. https://twitter.com/unmodernm/status/1292060688941121537?s=21