too many folks are like "do not objectify a woman " until that woman posts exactly one arguably lewd pic of themselves

then its either "awooga where onlyfans" or '"reinforcing traditional beauty standards? um, okay" no in between

some people are saying 'just don't interact' which i don't agree with, tbh. i mean sure if you can't trust yourself. but the trick is to ask yourself "am i treating the person i'm interacting with as a person or as a product/brand i'm consuming"

people usually like compliments. people act like complimenting without dehumanising is a narrow path, but it isn't, really