too many folks are like "do not objectify a woman https://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="😇" title="Lächelndes Gesicht mit Heiligenschein" aria-label="Emoji: Lächelndes Gesicht mit Heiligenschein">" until that woman posts exactly one arguably lewd pic of themselves

then its either "awooga where onlyfans" or & #39;"reinforcing traditional beauty standards? um, okay" no in between

some people are saying & #39;just don& #39;t interact& #39; which i don& #39;t agree with, tbh. i mean sure if you can& #39;t trust yourself. but the trick is to ask yourself "am i treating the person i& #39;m interacting with as a person or as a product/brand i& #39;m consuming"

people usually like compliments. people act like complimenting without dehumanising is a narrow path, but it isn& #39;t, really