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i really didn’t know if i wanted to do this or not but no one is talking about this in fact i see people liking her tweets joking about this so please read this
okay so this was tweeted earlier today about people being upset over someone calling chn transphobic/saying he said a transphobic slur. at first she explained to me that she meant only cis people and that’s why i said “go on” but some of my other trans mutuals felt invalidated +
by this still, feeling like she meant everyone shouldn’t react to it and that’s honestly how i kind of felt as well but i didn’t want to argue with her because i knew how she has ran other people off of twitter before so i just went with it. +
someone replied to her and i saw that she had addressed me as they. if this was just a random person on twitter that i didn’t know, i would understand. but we had been mutuals for months before that and we had interacted any times so it genuinely felt as if i was misgendered +
that was why i deactivated. not because i was throwing a “temper tantrum” as her sibling would say (you’ll see that in a min)
so she dmes my friend this and this really just doesn’t feel..genuine? i feel that her saying she doesn’t understand what she has to apologize for/asking my friend what she has to apologize for just tells me that she doesn’t feel guilt from before? that’s just personal feelings.
also notice as all of this is going on she’s tweeting complete nonsense instead of showing any signs of guilt. i’m not saying she has to stop tweeting or anything but in the middle of people tweeting her and asking her to apologize she just..tweets this stuff?
i reactivated and got her personal apology dm (which i was not obligated to accept considering all of the things i’ve just seen)
okay this is where things get so hectic and it honestly made me very anxious at how fast these notifications were coming in so if you get very anxious by this kind of stuff i would probably skip past this but her sibling came onto twitter and blew me up with so many +
tweets i could barely see any of them and it was making me very anxious
tw// ableism
this just..i don’t have words to describe how much this upset me
this just..i don’t have words to describe how much this upset me
now before you say anything i understand she has no control over what her sibling does or says but she definitely was encouraging it by liking the tweets and saying this. it kinda feels like she minimized trans peoples anger to just..us being stays
this was the last of our conversation where i tried to explain what i was saying and i got this response and a block.
hopefully she never tweets this shit again because after today i genuinely do not think she’s a trans ally.
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