a thread of things not to comment when an idol is on vlive since yall like to overstep boundaries, a lot of the comments i saw on hyunj!ns recent live and chns room today were really questionable, sorry if theres any typos </3
"say ____" some of yall constantly spam the chat with say ___ and not only is it annoying, they probably see it and IGNORE YOU, theres a reason why they arent saying it
do NOT ask about ships :) fans sometime take shipping way too serious and it could possibly end up damaging idols relationships with each other/make them feel awkward
dont ask for other members, if only one or a few of them is live it probably means the others are doing something or just simply dont wanna go on vlive <3 its v rude and probably hurts their feelings if they see the comments since they& #39;re taking time out of their day to go live
tw // scars
this is a new one ive seen bc of chns live today, but pls dont ask about idols scars, especially if you know they have had mental health issues in the past, its incredibly insensitive and oversteps several boundaries, we arent close friends, we& #39;re FANS
this is a new one ive seen bc of chns live today, but pls dont ask about idols scars, especially if you know they have had mental health issues in the past, its incredibly insensitive and oversteps several boundaries, we arent close friends, we& #39;re FANS
another new one :) dont say "touch your nose/lips/forehead etc if you miss ____" i saw so many of these on hyunj!ns live and they were talking about w00jin, i dont even need to explain how wrong this is
"be my boyfriend/girlfriend for 10 seconds" they& #39;re never gonna be in a relationship with you <3 and idols shut some of yall down so fast, you can tell they dont like it so stop pls thank u
"speak in english" or literally any other language, you dont see your idols asking you to speak in korean/their native language so dont ask them to speak in your native language
"if you dont see this then we& #39;re married" idk how some of yall think this one is cute
https://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="🧍♀️" title="Stehende Frau" aria-label="Emoji: Stehende Frau">idk about idols but i would be very uncomfortable if i saw a comment like this
this is another one i shouldnt even have to explain but dont comment sexual stuff in the chat :// idols are HUMANS and some of yall sexualize everything they do, its weird and makes all of us very uncomfortable
"go to sleep" most of idols are grown adults that know their bodies well enough to know when they really need sleep, if the idol is a minor then thats a different story but even then, let them live their lives?? because they might have trouble sleeping or are just up late
anyways, thats all i could think of but i know theres a lot more, this is just a reminder to not spam the chat with annoying/disrespectful things because idols are humans just like we are <3