Seeing "sexualizing asheiji is bad because ash is a survivor" takes, especially from people who arent survivors themselves, makes me so angry. I s2g people have such a distorted and harmful view of trauma from sexual abuse.

This isn't just about a fictional ship. If you believe that survivors of sexual abuse don't have sexual agency, that we cannot ever consent to sex again, or that no one can find us sexually attractive , you are harming survivors. You are infantilizing us.

People really dont think before they just straight up say that sexual abuse survivors can never have consensual sex.

Next time just say you see us as fundamentally broken. Same thing.