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Guys, so I& #39;ve got a tiny problem in my real life and i do not know how to deal with it, so the following thread is going to be a venting thread, sorry for that
So I& #39;m a member at a scientific club in my university. We made it last year, and this club means a lot to me.
Now, I& #39;m the general secretary and the graphic design responsible of the club.
There& #39;s a girl, let& #39;s call her Sonia, she& #39;s the marketing responsible and likes design too.
Now, I& #39;m the general secretary and the graphic design responsible of the club.
There& #39;s a girl, let& #39;s call her Sonia, she& #39;s the marketing responsible and likes design too.
Now this Sonia is a real pain in the ass, she takes over my responsibilites and has done many nasty stuff to me. Even when I tell her about it, she says sorry and that she didn& #39;t mean anything bad, but then she goes on being the bitch she is.
She also victimize herself a lot, and always says that nobody is giving value to her work, that the club& #39;s president is being too harsh on her, she vents to everyone and always talks shit to me about other members (which i don& #39;t appreciate)
The president always try to make her feel better, he gave her the title of best member of the year, he gave her administrative responsibilities (cause she adores responsibility) and tried to make her happy with her position in the club in all possible ways.
He even told me to let her take over my responsibilites without complaining, he told me he knows that it& #39;s bad, but said "c& #39;mon just be the bigger person you know".. I mean he treated her in a really nice way.
Until one day she wanted to put her nose in things that have nothing to do with her. That day the president stood up and told her that things can& #39;t be like that the whole time ect.. so she got mad, and said that she was going to resign from the club..
But the thing is, she& #39;s obsessed with the club !! She can never resign, I& #39;m sure, she& #39;s really obsessed with it. So she messaged me, saying "hey Nada, i need to take a long break in order to figure some things up, I don& #39;t want to hear anything about the club at this period -
-so i need you to replace me (in her marketing responsible position) until i& #39;m back, if i& #39;m back"
Now, nobody else in the club can replace her except me, nobody knows how to deal with e-marketing stuff.. but still, before answering her, i messaged to president
Now, nobody else in the club can replace her except me, nobody knows how to deal with e-marketing stuff.. but still, before answering her, i messaged to president
I told him that I don& #39;t want to do it, he begged me to, he said there& #39;s no other choice, and told me that he& #39;s not holding Sonia from resigning, she can do whatever the hell she wants cause he& #39;s tired of her.
So since then, I& #39;m taking her responsibility + my design responsibility + my general secretary responsibility... So all of this is pretty much time consuming, but yeah..
But what& #39;s sickening the hell out of me, is that Sonia is still involving herself in club stuff, she& #39;s reading all my messages in the marketing groupchat with the marketing team, as if she& #39;s supervising me ? But I thought she wanted to get away from the club !
And the last incident that made me write this thread, is that she posted a story on insta about how she& #39;s learning new designing techniques (techniques that i was trynna learn but stopped cuz no more free time becuz of her, but yeah 
https://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="đ" title="Auf den Kopf gestelltes Gesicht" aria-label="Emoji: Auf den Kopf gestelltes Gesicht">) and then she showed the work she& #39;s doing -
- with those new techniques she& #39;s learning, and... It& #39;s a god damned new logo for our club ! Since I& #39;m a designer and i know how she thinks, I know for sure that it& #39;s going to be a logo, i& #39;m like 100% sure... So, she took a break and has all the free time she-
-wants to improve her skills, and she& #39;s using them to then come and brag about her new logo ? When she& #39;s not even letting me have the chance to learn ? Idk if what I& #39;m feeling is right or wrong. I& #39;m not jealous of her, but i really feel like a big ass fool
And i know that talking about it with the club& #39;s president won& #39;t help, and i& #39;m just really sad cause she& #39;s kinda using me, or at least that& #39;s how i feel.. and i can& #39;t go and tell her "stop learning stuff" or "enough of your break" it feels wrong to me https://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="đ" title="Nachdenkliches Gesicht" aria-label="Emoji: Nachdenkliches Gesicht">
And idk what to do, I thought of leaving the club multiple times because of her, but I really love the club and worked so hard to make it the succesful club it is today.
That was a damn long thread, sorry y& #39;all
That was a damn long thread, sorry y& #39;all
