Men will never give you closure. Why would they give you the finality of closure when they could deny it to you and cross their fingers you’ll be back? Why give closure on things they don’t want to actually close?

You’re the loss, not them. You think they’re gonna wrap up how aint shit/useless/mediocre they are in a nice bow and be like “it was definitely all my fault- you deserve better, goodbye”?! No. They’re gonna play oblivious and watch you go mad trying to get accountability.

Now YOU are doing the work. Now you’re trying to gain their validation. Now you’re coming back hoping they’ll take responsibility.. tell you how amazing u were. They woulda been did that if they were worth shit. Don’t hold ur breath. They want u around, they’re not closing shit.