So many women take signs & normal interactions as deep love or a commitment from men. They run with something as meaningless as a late night talk for several hours & call it a deep connection, when it’s not.

Remember, interpretation is how you find yourself in situationships. https://twitter.com/_misterenigma/status/1300895338405023744

People take things like:

He text me everyday=he’s only committed to me & is interested in only me.

He vents to me=I’m his soul mate

We go out places=we are dating

Instead of seeing the explicit behavior along with an articulation of that feeling/behavior as the standard,

Everything becomes a guessing game or interpretation.

The reality is most men are lonely. They have friends but rarely have deep connections where they can be themselves. Because of that, they’ll chat with any woman who will offer a soothing balm. They may not even be

interested in you, but you benefit them. You make them feel less lonely, depressed, or angry & they’ll take that! They may not want or care about you, but your benefits help them like themselves or be able to deal with themselves more.

So, i say all that to say...Stay away from interpretation !

I guess I have to say this since Yknow ...twitter. The onus isn’t on women in this thread. It’s on men to stop stringing along & manipulating women.

HOWEVER, most men won’t stop their own benefits so this is to inform my ladies about not allowing interpretation trip them up.

....And let’s not say it doesn’t because how many of us have read a text to our home girl and asked what do you think this mean? Or tell your girls how many things this man does for you & if that means something.

Interpretation trips us up.