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sejujurnya, i’m a nobody but here’s a take on what to discuss with your partner/boyfriend/girlfriend before or when you decide to marry each other.
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1. discuss on family planning. dia nak anak berapa, you nak berapa. nak pregnant terus or tunggu one year dulu or few years dulu.
nak guna kaedah apa untuk family planning. apa pendapat dia, dia ok tak. kita rasa camne. pandai guna kondoms tak. tahu tak tu apa.
nak guna kaedah apa untuk family planning. apa pendapat dia, dia ok tak. kita rasa camne. pandai guna kondoms tak. tahu tak tu apa.
jangan terkejut my doctors friends guna condoms pun tak tahu. tak ada family planning apa, main redah je. bulan-bulan cucuk, safe sex tak practice.
2. financial planning. know each other’s financial status! penting! and what is it that you want to achieve in the long run. nak take insurance together ke. apa nak buat to ensure you protect your income and savings for the future, for kids.
ambil tahu what both of you think about it supaya boleh cari compatibility.
hubungan intim and financial stability are important. kasih sayang in marriage dizahirkan through responsibility. sikap bertanggungjawab terhadap pasangan. so be responsible. dah nak kahwin kan, nak malu apa.
walau berbincang macam nak rak pun, still tak menjanjikan kita tahu pasangan sebenarnya. dah kahwin bertahun pun masih lagi fasa saling mengenali sebab kita sentiasa berubah. growth.
i tak faham kenapa dah tahu nak kahwin tapi soalan macam ni pun tak tanya. padahal basic je ni. ntah ntah dia anti vaksin ke. jenis tak boleh dr lelaki merawat kita ke (sakit adalah keadaan mudarat). nak anak 10 ke tak kisah la kita mati waktu beranak ke apa.
so if you’re serious and already talking about marriage with your partner, discuss a lot. discuss and ask supaya bila dah kahwin tak terkejut yang sebenarnya oh.. tak compatible. padahal nak hidup lama ni.
also, i’m not yet married but here are some of the things i learnt by time on what to ask etc because i have my expectations and my goals and my needs. my partner does too. if you disagree, kindly make no engagement with this thread. just sharing some of the things you can ask.
3. tanya if waktu beranak nanti dia ok ke kalau dr lelaki yang sambut. tibeh laki kita meroyan nak ceraikan ke apa kalau dr lelaki sambut, tak ke gila nak hadap tu?
4. tanya dia if terpaksa pilih anak or isteri waktu bersalin and boleh selamatkan sorang je, dia nak selamatkan siapa.
5. tanya if dia okay berkongsi buat kerja rumah sesama, if dia sanggup jaga anak sesama. tengok reaksi dan raut wajah dia waktu ni.
6. kalau kita ada possibility untuk dapat breast cancer ke apa apa cancer and terpaksa remove, what does he think about it. terus nak kahwin lain ke.
7. ok tak kalau isteri gaji lagi tinggi dari suami.
8. okay ke lepas kahwin duduk rumah mak ayah. ikut lah belah sesiapa. ok ke tak ok. apa pendapat masing-masing
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