During my sister's wedding, dad kept saying 'e ma mu oti ninu ile yi o' (don't drink in this house). We put a tent outside the house and started drinking. We were ready for him boya ile won de oju titi ni? (may be the road is part of the house). He retired into the house calmly.

There was no need to argue. We found a solution like smart kids that he raised.

He raised us to debate and reach working conclusions. He was now dishing orders when we were already adults. Ko le werk mehn.

I don't know the spirit that entered him that day. But I like how quickly he accepted his fate. It was never discussed. O kan jora ran simi ni.