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A thread on why we should trust MG’s love and also give them the privacy they need.
This idea has been spinning in my head for a while now, but it’s a bit more of a sensitive topic. Therefore I wanted time to really consider it before making this thread.
I’ve actually had a+
This idea has been spinning in my head for a while now, but it’s a bit more of a sensitive topic. Therefore I wanted time to really consider it before making this thread.
I’ve actually had a+
similar experience before, so I am not speaking out of pure speculation but more so drawing a possible parallel. Keep in mind, this is a theory only, not fact. Every person is different.
I made a thread already about how Mew wants to protect their love. For him, love is only+
I made a thread already about how Mew wants to protect their love. For him, love is only+
meant to be between two people. And if they let everyone else in, it would do more harm than good. He wants to keep it safe so it can last for a very long time. It shouldn’t be under a spotlight or microscope.
Here’s another thing. Not only would admitting their relationship+
Here’s another thing. Not only would admitting their relationship+
let the public in, it would also be confirming their relationship with another man. Now, don’t take that wrong. Any relationship between any gender is completely equal and beautiful. But, we have to be empathetic and understanding of the fact that everyone has a different+
journey in figuring out their orientation and preferences and when they want to share that with others. We can’t force someone to come out.
We already know some about Mew’s orientation, but we know nothing about G’s other than his past relationship. G has stated before that+
We already know some about Mew’s orientation, but we know nothing about G’s other than his past relationship. G has stated before that+
love is love, but a belief isn’t always equal to how one identifies for themselves.
Now, that leads to what I was referring to from my own experience. Sometimes when you’re an open-minded person life can surprise you. You can think that you only want to be with one gender, but+
Now, that leads to what I was referring to from my own experience. Sometimes when you’re an open-minded person life can surprise you. You can think that you only want to be with one gender, but+
then you fall for someone that you didn’t expect. It can be confusing because you are falling in love but you don’t necessarily identify with what that love will mean for you. Granted, we are never required to label ourselves. It’s okay to just be what we are and love who+
we love. But it takes time to understand these things, especially if you are less experienced in life.
G mentioned before in interviews that M was his first real kiss with a man. He has played around with pecks in high school with friends, but nothing major. So, MG falling in+
G mentioned before in interviews that M was his first real kiss with a man. He has played around with pecks in high school with friends, but nothing major. So, MG falling in+
love and being together is a first for G. Now, we don’t know the details. He could be bi, pan, or even just no label at all but just happened to fall in love with one individual, who we know as M.
The thing about it though is that society likes to label people. It’s okay to+
The thing about it though is that society likes to label people. It’s okay to+
label yourself and also okay not to. But if MG reveal they’re dating, they will be labeled by others because that’s how it goes. If G is still learning about himself and about their relationship, then I truly believe MG want to keep it private and safe. G doesn’t owe anyone+
an explanation. And sometimes it can take time to accept the ripples of a relationship that you didn’t expect. Especially if you have to worry about outside influences, like living in a country that isn’t as fully accepting of LGBTQ+.
Anyway, my point is that their love is+
Anyway, my point is that their love is+
private and beautiful. We can’t control the interview questions that are asked of them, but if we stop pushing for a relationship status it’d be a good thing. If they ever plan to share it’ll be in their own time. It’s okay to discuss theories and have fun on twt without tagging+
them, of course.
But personally, now that I keep thinking about how much they have to protect and grow their love, it comforts me when they deflect questions and stand their ground about being single. Because their actual love doesn’t lie. We see it plain as day. In everything+
But personally, now that I keep thinking about how much they have to protect and grow their love, it comforts me when they deflect questions and stand their ground about being single. Because their actual love doesn’t lie. We see it plain as day. In everything+
they do and every look they give to each other. But, voicing the facts are different. It’s more concrete and personal. They could be very confident in their identity or still learning. That’s for them to know and us to respect from a healthy distance.+
So the next time you hear PhiNong, feel free to smile because what that really means is “we cherish and protect our love”. ♡
A post-thread note. Please remember this is all speculation. Only MG know the details of their love and how they identify. I just wanted to present a possibility because I believe that we can support them and their love without waiting for a relationship status confirmation.+
I truly hope I didn’t offend anyone, but I felt it was something we should all consider so we can continue to be patient. Their love is so beautiful, and at least we can all agree on the fact that we are there to support them no matter what.
