1/ Attributing patient& #39;s difficulties to "privilege" is troubling even if therapist had met patient. It betrays a judgmental attitude completely antithetical to psychological inquiry/ understanding. Also, in recent discourse, term "privilege" is almost always used as epithet, to https://twitter.com/sombravox/status/1301424287102898177">https://twitter.com/sombravox...
2/ shame and invalidate. The statement "you& #39;re speaking from place of privilege" serves to invalidate & delegitimize other& #39;s perspective. It inherently places person who makes statement in one up position and person to whom it is directed in one down. What is spoken from "place
3/ of privilege" can be discounted.
There is NO place for such an attitude in the clinical consulting room. Therapist has no right to pass judgment on another& #39;s subjective experience, not explicitly & not implicitly. Therapeutic attitude/mindset is one of curiosity
There is NO place for such an attitude in the clinical consulting room. Therapist has no right to pass judgment on another& #39;s subjective experience, not explicitly & not implicitly. Therapeutic attitude/mindset is one of curiosity
4/ and openness, never of judgment. Real therapists seek to listen with beginner& #39;s mind. Real therapist& #39;s do not superimpose pre-existing theory/ideology on patient& #39;s experience. Real therapists *join with* patient in shared task of exploration & inquiry—not subtly maneuver
5/ themselves into one up position in therapy relationship nor presume a position of moral superiority, which is inherent in rendering the judgment "privileged" (whether spoken aloud or not). This is NOT PSYCHOTHERAPY.
6/ I said it before and I& #39;ll say it again: If this is what now passes for clinical thinking and professional discourse, the psychotherapy profession has reached a new low and I am ashamed and embarrassed for it, down to the last molecule of my being.