I.e. she trivializes sex and removes the drama and peril from it (two things that nerds canât stand). âNaked morning coffee chatâ is precisely the nerd fantasy of sex, itâs totally mundane and therefore approachable. https://twitter.com/wesyang/status/1301916423778791424">https://twitter.com/wesyang/s...
distinction to be made here is that between eroticism and fetish/porn. It actually is normal to eroticize otherwise typical scenarios with a lover (this is called âa dateâ), but the nerd explicitly fetishizes, in a pornographic way, these things. https://twitter.com/ThracianRapist/status/1301925036333375490?s=20">https://twitter.com/ThracianR...
Going out on a coffee date with a girl you like is a (potentially) erotic scenario. Going out on a coffee date where the girl is naked and touches herself is pornographic. The nerd fantasizes about one and not the other.
Again, thatâs actually a relatively normal thing to fantasize about. Men are very horny after all (our best trait). But the major distinction is that the nerd fantasizes about not necessarily because itâs âhotterâ, but primarily because itâs âeasierâ and more âapproachableâ.
Also because normal eroticism doesnât do anything for porn-addicted nerds.