my toxic trait is just releasing and letting go without concern for how the other may feel about me leaving. while i can just leave, it’s also good to speak up and give people space to understand my perspective so they don’t feel like i just ripped our friendship away.

this always gets me bc other people feel more intensely about our friendship than i did. we’ll be on two different pages.. so to ME it doesn’t matter. but i have to stop and think MAYBE they do care about the relation. and i have to recognize why i don’t care to just leave.

i guess it’s just a thing of being considerate of others potential feelings. i can 100% let go and leave. i just gotta let them know what i’m feeling AND THEN leave. bc when i see something i dont like.. im just done.