Something doesn& #39;t sit right with me about trans men blaming nonmen and their "misandry"- especially blaming trans women- for their difficulty coming out.

Are you sincerely implying other people are your oppressors because they& #39;re traumatized, angry victims of misogyny because it makes you.....feel bad about your gender?? Are those really your priorities???

I& #39;m sorry, but if people don& #39;t trust or like you because you& #39;re a man there& #39;s a reason for it. Even if you& #39;re a trans man.

Because it probably means you& #39;re not making whatever space you& #39;re in any safer to be in for people not like you. And who& #39;s fault is that again?.... https://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="🤔" title="Denkendes Gesicht" aria-label="Emoji: Denkendes Gesicht">

"Misandry" is literally just people telling you that they feel unsafe around you as a man.

The second you hear that, that& #39;s your cue to make moves to make that space safer, usually by asking questions. That& #39;s not your cue to flinch like you were punched when no fists are up.