I dont pay bills. I stay at home and nurture the hell out of my kids. Their father takes over when he gets off work. He also does the laundry. He also cleans the bathrooms and the dining room. He knows their doctors and therapist. He has his own relationship & bond with each girl

He knows their sizes. He knows who likes their milk warm and who likes it cold. He knows their favorite song to calm them down. He's taking positive parenting courses w/ me. He's their fucking father. He also plays video games daily (his way of fun and decompressing)

He did this while in the military, which is why he transferred to reserves because it was too much and he chose his children as a priority. He does it now as a rising Help desk manager. You can have a career and be an intentional and present Father

Wtf do y'all think working mothers have done all this time you absolute worthless creatures?

Now granted, i probably wouldn't have completely stopped working if my children weren't neurodiverse. However then we would split bills, split responsibilities, and save and invest in both our girls and our life together.

Why wouldn't you want to care for your child?

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