Reciprocity is necessary. And stressful. At the same time. You want it & should get it because you deserve. It& #39;s also entitlement. Which creates stress. Because are we calculating & measuring things for ourselves now?? But love is giving. But giving without receiving is unfair.

I& #39;m not done arranging the thoughts in my head. Love is not a competition. But nobody wants the short end of the stick. And if you don& #39;t say anything you can end up resentful. Also, your needs are valid. But if you talk isn& #39;t that entitlement? What if they& #39;re trying their best?

Shouldn& #39;t you just accept the love they give you as the love they have & be satisfied? But what if you& #39;re not satisfied, don& #39;t they deserve to know? If it matters to you shouldn& #39;t you tell them? But if you do isn& #39;t that being critical & ungrateful. Now you& #39;re entitled & demanding

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