Heal your feminine energy by forgiving your mother. Heal your masculine energy by forgiving your father.
Forgiveness requires acceptance and compassion, accepting what simply “is” & having compassion/empathy towards said experience. Forgiveness happens within, & it has very little to do w/ the other person tbh.
Your parents are human, it helps to understand that they carry their own trauma from their past too. Most of us really have no idea really what wars they’re fighting within. They most likely don’t even realize the magnitude of pain they caused bc they’re not even aware
Trauma makes it very hard to show up for yourself, as a partner, or parent. I know it’s sad. I know it hurts. As their child we didn’t ask for any of this shit. But understanding this can help us forgive for the sake of our own healing. This isn’t our burden to carry anymore.
Toxic parents are constantly in a state of trigger & projection. It’s exhausting. Esp if you live at home. That’s why boundaries are so important. Love from a distance. “I understand why you’re like this, I love you, but I’m not going to accept/receive this behavior.”
& it’s ok to accept that some parents really are pieces of shit. You don’t have to love them at all, they don’t have to exist to you. But to properly release that it requires awareness, and compassion. It won’t happen overnight, be patient with this process. 💛
I suffered deeply due to resentment. I didn’t understand. Until I became an adult & realized how difficult life really is. So much happened that they hid from me as a child & now that I know what really happened I was able to forgive my mother. She really did the best she could.
I’ve forgiven my father countless times, he’s caused deep pain for our family. He refuses to accept anything, living in denial & stuck in his toxic ways. I won’t have anything to do w/ someone who can’t be helped. It’s not my problem. & I won’t be troubled by him anymore. Release
In healing our masculine & feminine energies, we have to ‘study’ our first teachers of the masculine & feminine- our parents. How do they embody these energies? In a healthy or toxic manner? In what ways do I behave similar to them? How can I heal this? This awareness is key.
This awareness allows us to forgive & be better than our parents. My masculine energy used to be toxic bc I had my father as an example. But since I’ve been healing my masculine energy, I’ve been very balanced. Remember, healing takes time. Be patient, you got this đŸ’›đŸ™đŸŸ
My name is Euphemia & I am an intuitive massage therapist & a high vibrational healer✹ I do Past Life Regression, Guided Meditations & Energy Healing. I am dedicated to elevating the consciousness of our community thru holistic healing 💛 learn more: http://Luckeystar.net  đŸ€đŸ’«
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