Before everyone starts giving their hot takes, I will love to quickly point out a few lessons in this video, especially for a lot of my younger followers. https://twitter.com/fayokunmii/status/1301473962468216832">https://twitter.com/fayokunmi...

Never let anyone make you feel bad for telling them exactly what you want. You don’t have to drop your standards for anyone or pretend to be who you’re not. #Livelonglivewell

Your choice of a life partner is a very big decision that would affect all aspects of your life, from spiritual to emotional and even to your career. Never treat this decision with levity. #Livelonglivewell

No one has it all figured out, but beware of those who just live on vibes and Insha Allah. Every serious person needs to have a short and long term plan for their lives. Things may not always go as planned but at least you have a sense of direction. #Livelonglivewell

It’s never too early to start planning for retirement. Many of our parents are retired, and they will tell you that time flies. One day you’re starting a new job, and the next, you’re already 35 years in. Without a plan, you’d retire one day with nothing to fall back on.

Finally, there is time for everything. While I believe enquiring about a prospective partner’s long term plans are in order, doing such on a first date may not be the best approach. Not everyone will be willing to share their plans on a first date. #Livelonglivewell