Before everyone starts giving their hot takes, I will love to quickly point out a few lessons in this video, especially for a lot of my younger followers. https://twitter.com/fayokunmii/status/1301473962468216832

Never let anyone make you feel bad for telling them exactly what you want. You don’t have to drop your standards for anyone or pretend to be who you’re not. #Livelonglivewell

Your choice of a life partner is a very big decision that would affect all aspects of your life, from spiritual to emotional and even to your career. Never treat this decision with levity. #Livelonglivewell

No one has it all figured out, but beware of those who just live on vibes and Insha Allah. Every serious person needs to have a short and long term plan for their lives. Things may not always go as planned but at least you have a sense of direction. #Livelonglivewell

It’s never too early to start planning for retirement. Many of our parents are retired, and they will tell you that time flies. One day you’re starting a new job, and the next, you’re already 35 years in. Without a plan, you’d retire one day with nothing to fall back on.

Finally, there is time for everything. While I believe enquiring about a prospective partner’s long term plans are in order, doing such on a first date may not be the best approach. Not everyone will be willing to share their plans on a first date. #Livelonglivewell