In first semester i once cracked a joke about jackie-shroff in front of my Indian class mate,
the girl literally stopped talking to me... LITERALLY.
i was surprised, bkz she used to crack jokes about us all the time,
i just returned the favor, that too about an actor, I mean.....

who gives a flying duck, right?

I was amazed by her childish response. it wasn’t her first time.
My kaliwaal & other friends noticed her behavior too & we decided, not to do projects together to avoid any extra awkward fuss.

Unfortunately due to her behavior, nobody took her...

in any projects in 1st semester. & God knows how she survived in exams.

But
By time she got more mature & Professional.
She progressed far better then most boys i know came from desi backgrounds. We did a lot of projects later.

Now when i think about her….......

that attitude was a reflection of her previous Educational & cultural background &
NO, I am not saying in disrespectful way,
NOT AT ALL,
I really mean it with concern.

In pak &indian universities STEREO-TYPICALLY speaking, boys either react very submissive or badmash ........

in front of girls.
They live on extreme.
Boys either do their projects or expect that girls will do theirs.
Somehow every lengthy conversation end up flirtatious or uncomfortable.
Some boys completely agree with every shit their female class fellow do like certified fake........

hypocrites & some completely disagree even with good things...

nu jenai ghareeba ya pa hawa shi, ao ya insecure shi.

The same with desi twitter I mentioned before… https://twitter.com/CapitalistRumi/status/1255892270022352896?s=20

(She either become infallible dua lipa in her eyes or sati desi savitri looking for recognition, now when that dua lipa enter a different culture she expect the same privilege but no one gives a damn because the bars are different & high)

(The Exact same argument goes for.....

Desi Ryan goslings too)

We should just treat each other equal & fair, Regardless of gender.
This is how we should roll in universities & professional life............

Everyone should do their part in project rather than just being happy that oh, I got that dua lipa in my group.

Meanwhile dua lipa is on mars thinking it’s her birth right to be rude & demanding.