TW // nsfw , sex
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Brief thread about sex, because I feel like it matters more to some people than it should. I'd recommend you don't read this if you're below the age of consent in your country. My belief is that age of consent is only relevant to other people
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Of that age group, rather than adults. So for example, here age of consent is 16 years old, but I don't have issue with two 16 year olds together, but with an adult? No that's just fucking wrong. So that's why I didn't say don't read this if you're a minor
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Because I believe this to still be relevant to the people of age of consent that aren't adults yet.

Sex is nothing special. Outside of as a way to create new life, it's nowhere near as great or amazing as it's hyped up to be. There's this massive pressure with teens, at least
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Here, where if you're still a virgin by the time you're 18 then you're a fucking loser. Which is really fucking dumb. The pressure isn't worth throwing yourself at someone, trust me. It's only worth doing with someone you really trust. Otherwise it's a bad experience.
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While I do say that, I also believe that sex isn't required in a relationship for love. While it's true that most people have libido, they don't NEED sex to survive, and they can take care of it themselves anyway. I don't know where the massive pressure of sex being so
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Important to life and relationships comes from, but I think it's really, really fucking dumb. A happy relationship doesn't rely on sex. A happy life doesn't rely on sex. You'll get to a point where nobody even cares if you've had sex or not

Final thing to say, in a relationship, sex doesn't matter, love does. Thats my truth. Society needs to remove the pressure on sex and the impact it has, because it also leads to sex-repulsed people or people who don't have sex in general to being treated like aliens. Which is ass