I’m gonna teach you n*ggas how to get and keep a bitch. Y’all are lost as hell. First start with women that actually like you and we can go from there

I wanna turn you n*ggas into pick me’s lmao

First- since most of your motives and behaviors are centered around sex, stop fucking with the goal to bust a nut. On your own, learn a woman’s body, then take time to explore her sexual needs. Focus on pleasing her and watch her enjoy you.

If you have trouble with communication or listening- try active listening and repeat back what you heard to create room for clarity and a fuller understanding.

Instead of asking “where do you see this going?”, be very clear about your intentions and state what YOU want, then ask the person of their wants match yours. Be prepared for rejection and understand the feeling may not be mutual. Rest in knowing you were true and honest.

Get out of the mentality “what can she do for me”. Understand YOU want HER so you should be proving to her why you’re better for her than any other n*gga she’s probably entertaining.

You cannot expect her to give you ALL of her time, energy, effort and attention when you haven’t done anything to EARN all of that from her. Even if you’re not sure whether or not you’re the only one, act like you’re not. Compete with yourself to win all the things you want.

The fundamental things she deserves from you shouldn’t be contingent on what she does for you. Give her those things simply because she deserves it for being a woman you’re interested in, not with a motive to receive something in return.

If you’re in a financial bind, hopefully it’s temporary and may financial success continue to be drawn to you Do not entertain women without the funds to entertain multiple women at a time. This way, you’re not penny pinching or expecting anything from women you take out.

If you have the funds to date multiple women, you won’t be disappointed if you took a lady out and things didn’t go the way you’d hoped. You also won’t expect ANYTHING from her just cuz you spent a little money taking her out because you have plenty.

I hate talking and hearing about dating but, it’s important to listen to women in conversations leading up to a date. She’ll give you enough information to know how to go about planning a first date. Be intentional. If unsure, ask how she likes to spend her time, socially.

It’s important to specify how she likes to spend her time because I may like to spend time reading or getting massages, but that doesn’t mean I want to do those things with you on a date. Then be intentional, she’ll notice.

HOWEVER- a man did plan a first date for me with a massage. Picked me up from the airport, dropped me off to shower & change at my hotel while he went out and bought my favorite wine, took me for dinner, then drinks, then ordered a masseuse to my room while he worked downstairs.

Show a woman you listen, care and value the opportunity to spend time with her. Treat her like her presence is literally a gift she chooses to give you and work to earn it as often as you want to receive it.