It’s time to share your #WednesdayWisdom! Tag a friend and let’s go! #SBCCHAT #RelationshipAdvice #AdultsOnly

Q1. Husband (3 years) revealed his choke fetish. I choke him in bed, but he says my grip is weak. I woke up and found him masturbating in the garage with an extension cord around his neck. He argued when I cut him down. I’m afraid he’s gonna take it too far. Help. #SBCCHAT

Q2. Dated a nice older woman for 4 months. COVID struck and I moved in. Discovered she changed her name to mine. She says we’re getting married cuz she’s “not slacking or shacking.” I guess I’m engaged now but I’m not sure if I want to go thru with it. Advice. #SBCCHAT

Q3. (Part 1 of 2) For the first time in our relationship I’m working and he’s home with the kids. My 4 y-o son FaceTimed me from hubby’s phone and our female neighbor was there washing dishes. Hubs says she comes over to help but he didn’t tell me beforehand. #SBCCHAT

Q3. (2of2) I told him we don’t need nobody doing chores. He says she is FREE help & the good w/ our kids. That I need to “quit the jealous BS.” This woman is the “fat girl w/ pretty face” type and you KNOW how they roll. Also, she doesn’t speak to me. Advice. #SBCCHAT

Q4. Boyfriend (2 years) came over for dinner. He left to get garlic bread and then went missing for 10 days. I was distraught looking everywhere for him. He finally appeared explaining that he went to drug rehab. He has no proof—and he still gets high. What to do? #SBCCHAT

Q5. I slipped up with my babymomma (and she’s pregnant again). I’m engaged, and my fiancée has no idea. I don’t want to be with my BM but I don’t want anyone else raising my kids. I’d like to move my BM & kids in with me & fiancée. HOW to do this successfully? #SBCCHAT

Q6. Moved in w/ my girl (8 months). She has 2 cats (gifts from her EX.) I’m SEVERELY allergic to cats and asked her to get rid of them. She said I can take “Benadryl & chill” or move TF out, cuz the cats are staying. Oh, and The EX still visits the cats. WTF. Advice. #SBCCHAT

Thank you for joining the #SBCCHAT TWEETHEARTS! If you have a love problem please submit your questions confidentially to [email protected]. We’ll see you next week! Keisha & Corrie