tw: narcissistic abuse, non consensual talk??

Having sex with narcissists really messes with your Sacral chakra, not gonna lie. The sex doesn't have to be good either, it could be all the future faking psychologically messing with you that keeps you chained to them.

They really seem to leech off that chakra because the Sacral really talks about sexuality, relationships and power dynamics that come with the latter. As we know, sex is really about power, so when you fuck narcissists, there is no equal exchange, just a power play.

Sex because they want to further seduce you into attachment, sex because they're not going to apologize, sex because your sex is their narcissistic supply, bonus points if they're selfish in bed.

The sex is always about the Narcissist even if they're a giver. They feel like they're giving you something you can't get anywhere else. They get off on your moans and screams and your begging as much as they get off on your reaction to their withdrawal. Your sexual withdrawal.

Sure enough, after you've endured being their emotional and psychological punching bag, sometimes escalating to more, and when you're about to lose it, they'll lure you to bed to lovebomb you or exert power over you, but consensually.

Sometimes this can be nonconsensual, though, because it's like you're saying yes because you can't say no or else they'll explode like a bomb. I think that even from the beginning, you're manipulated into sleeping with them. You're their toy, sometimes one of many.

And if they really wanna try you, they'll start sleeping with other people behind your back. Sometimes they want you to know. This is another power play to have you begging for them to stay with you once you're emotionally attached. It feeds their ego. Sometimes they'll project.

And when you go looking through their phone or looking for hairs or even accusing them, you're the crazy one. Yes, you're "crazy," even though they went through all that effort to manipulate you into thinking you meant more to them than what you really do. Projection.

Sometimes they won't fuck anybody else, just you. If you say no or start placing boundaries in regards to sex, they react in a way that unsettles you. They're withdrawing, they need that supply. It's their way or the highway.

Soon enough, you'll associate sex with some type of trauma and it's like they won because you may terrified to have sex with anybody else once you realize that you were basically used in that way. Your body will feel like it's not yours.

Just like that, your Sacral is blocked.

I forgot to mention, but they'll openly brag about fucking you to other people once they're done with you. Nothing is really more violating than that after you're done and it plays into the sacral chakra blockage. You're ultimately a notch in their bedpost and emotional goldmine.

Narcissists always kiss and tell, sometimes out of spite if you're a private person. Whereas you want to let it die, they'll be screaming from the rooftops about the sex they had with you and probably devaluing you to people because they don't want anybody else to sleep with you.