Tw abuse: one of my friends was in an abusive relationship a year ago. She just wanted me to tell her story here so that no one has to go through what she has gone through. So well there was this guy that she was dating ,he was 18 ,she was 16 at that time ,he

Wanted to get physical real quick ,this girl , being 16 ,had her own doubts and didn& #39;t want to do so , however whenever she said no , he& #39;d either verbally abuse her or physically abuse her , sometimes even Gaslight her to such an extent that she felt guilty about

not giving her consent. Everytime she said no , he& #39;d say things like ,& #39;well if you loved me ,you wouldn& #39;t say no& #39; or , "I& #39;m gonna cheat on u because you say no to me always " or " if I ever get u in a closed room alone , I don& #39;t care for consent , I& #39;d rape you" .

Pretty big red flags? I know. She should& #39;ve left him but well she didn& #39;t and here we are. Sometimes she ended up doing what he wanted just because she was either scared or felt that she would ruin the "relationship" . She told me about this in December last year ,when me and

a group of friends told her to leave this guy and if possible lodge a complaint too . Sad to say ,she never did that as she belonged from a pretty conservative family and was way too scared about them finding out. By this point I& #39;ve come to the end of this story

There& #39;s only one lesson here ,the moment you recognise a red flag ,you run away .
If u don& #39;t want to do something be it physical or in any way, IT& #39;S OKAY , NOBODY has the right to force u to do something u don& #39;t want to do ,even in the name of LOVE and honestly that& #39;s not love.