Radical idea #1: Maybe I'd like to be able to talk to my mom before giving out contact info for where she is staying... She got in late yesterday and was already in bed when I finally heard from someone there.
Radical idea #2: If people (who have been made aware that I'm stressed and will give out info when I'm ready) stopped sending me questions, maybe I'd be less stressed and more capable of communicating.
Literally every time someone emails me, my anxiety increases which makes in harder for me to function. I feel physically ill right now (which is no cause for concern because it is typical for when my anxiety is really bad)
I'm tempted to just tell the facility to call her brother when they have questions on why she doesn't have a wheelchair or something. He can't provide any worse an answer than I can, so why should I have all the fun?
The more I'm pressed, the harder it is to think of writing an email that says something more tactful than "Give me some f--ing space"
And if you've been told I'm stressed and you still email me questions, it basically says to me "I don't give a shit about you, I just want what I want"
My mom hasn't even been at her new place for 24 hours. I've spent most of that time feeling so physically ill with anxiety that I turned a good Phillies game off early last night.
This thread inspired by trying to proactively prevent myself from losing it during my upcoming monthly one on one status meeting with my boss.
