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THREAD - REJECTING GUYS:
1. I have a problem with the way girls deceitfully reject guys they are not interested in dating. Most girls know early on from when they get talking to a guy if he is the type of guy they could date.
1. I have a problem with the way girls deceitfully reject guys they are not interested in dating. Most girls know early on from when they get talking to a guy if he is the type of guy they could date.
2. It& #39;s okay to keep talking to a guy if what he wants from you is friendship, but many girls want to keep a guy around even after he has indicated a stronger interest. Some girls do this because they enjoy the guy& #39;s company. Many others do it for feminine self-validation.
3. Others do it for an easy rebound incase their expectations with other guys don& #39;t pan out. Either ways, it is totally selfish to string a guy along for the sole purpose of satisfying your personal desires. You might think sugar coating or lying about why you don& #39;t want to...
4. ...date a guy saves him from feeling hurt but the truth is, it doesn& #39;t. By default, most guys are hurt by rejection regardless of the reason you give them. Giving them a reason to be hopeful would only make them a little less hurt but complicates matters in the long run.
5. But by being honest and upfront about why you don& #39;t want to date him, you& #39;d save yourselves a lot of trouble. Most guys would deal with the rejection as they should and move on. Others might press a little more but will move on eventually if you maintain your resolve.
6. Don& #39;t tell a guy stuff like you& #39;re not ready for a relationship. The truth is usually that you don& #39;t like him that much or he is not your "first choice". Many guys might pretend that it& #39;s fine and act all mature but are only biding their time and scheming.
7. And for all you know, some other guy could come through and sweep you off your feet. Many girls have told guys they& #39;re not emotionally ready for relationships but started dating another guy the ff week. They& #39;ve said that and were engaged 3/6 months after.
8. How do you think the guy would take that? Situations like this could lead to nastiness.
Don& #39;t tell a guy who is romantically interested in you, "let& #39;s just be friends" because you don& #39;t like him that way. Many guys who are interested in you that way would have a hard time...
Don& #39;t tell a guy who is romantically interested in you, "let& #39;s just be friends" because you don& #39;t like him that way. Many guys who are interested in you that way would have a hard time...
9. maintaining an ordinary friendship with you. It& #39;s a slippery slope.
Don& #39;t keep engaging a guy who is romantically interested in you while avoiding meeting them. Dont re-initiate communication if you have no intentions of being serious.
Don& #39;t keep engaging a guy who is romantically interested in you while avoiding meeting them. Dont re-initiate communication if you have no intentions of being serious.
10. Don& #39;t ignore him until you have explicitly told him why you can& #39;t date him. Try:
"I& #39;ve had fun talking to you but I don& #39;t feel that chemistry"
"You seem like a great guy but I don& #39;t like you like that"
"It& #39;s been nice getting to know you but I don& #39;t see us as compatible"
"I& #39;ve had fun talking to you but I don& #39;t feel that chemistry"
"You seem like a great guy but I don& #39;t like you like that"
"It& #39;s been nice getting to know you but I don& #39;t see us as compatible"
11. Everybody wants closure so the most important thing in rejecting a guy is to be respectful, honest and upfront. We will be doing just fine.
