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Okay. I know this is very unlike me to post. I've never gotten this personal on here, but I need to talk about this or else I will go crazy.
This is one of the worst "apologies" I've ever read.
This is one of the worst "apologies" I've ever read.
"I am going to recollect everything I've done to hurt people"
For recollecting everything, you sure left out a whole lot of things, including the continued sexual harassment and unsolicited NSFW DMing, including at me, despite knowing you did it in 2018.
For recollecting everything, you sure left out a whole lot of things, including the continued sexual harassment and unsolicited NSFW DMing, including at me, despite knowing you did it in 2018.
CW // NSFW imagery (censored) , transmasc fetishizing
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In May of THIS YEAR, you DMed me NSFW art of a trans man. A very feminine and curvy one with an emphasis on the chest (I'm censoring the artist's name since this isn't on them and they're trans too).
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In May of THIS YEAR, you DMed me NSFW art of a trans man. A very feminine and curvy one with an emphasis on the chest (I'm censoring the artist's name since this isn't on them and they're trans too).
You already sent that post in a mutual server's NSFW chat. I already saw it but didn't want to say anything. But you had to go to my DMs to show it to me SPECIFICALLY because I'm transmasculine. And focus on the chests of transmascs.
You even admitted to having a crush on me not long before this. I basically had to force myself to not feel dysphoric at the time and even now because I knew if I vocalized my discomfort, you would "apologize" but in a way that's really guilt trippy.
Much like how your "apology" HERE guilt trips because there's so much in there that's practically begging people to sympathize with you like you talking about your past as though you were a completely different person. Your past still reflects you and your actions.
You act as though you sexually harassed "but it was only 2018 and it's fine because you already apologized". No, you've done the same here (this isn't even the only NSFW art she sent me but this one stands out) and thought it was okay still to do something that creepy.
Like okay, it's great that you omit people's names for the sake of their privacy but you can't omit actions. You can't just downplay the gravity of your actions in favor of garnering pity points and attention from people who don't even know half of the situation.
Even if two people are both adults, no matter how friendly they are with each other, suddenly sending unsolicited NSFW stuff is still wrong and a violation of consent that's uncomfortable at best and traumatizing at worst.
I'm pissed that you have the audacity to go "I hate myself for this. I deserve this. :(" and acting like the "still closeted trans woman" in your past, another way to last minute gain sympathy, is SO different from you now because You'd Never Sexually Harass People Again. /s
So, no. I don't accept your flimsy apology, I don't forgive you, and I'm done with the manipulation.
