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a thread.
a thread.
(1/?) before i begin, this entire thread isn’t to expose the friend. as much as she has hurt me and made me feel like i don’t belong here, don’t send her hate if you find her accounts. this thread is only to expose the fact that people like her exist. this is for awareness.
(2/?) and then, this thread will have a lot of mature topics and sensitive conversations or things mentioned. this friend does have a lot of issues going on, however, this is only to educate and inform those on her actions, not to ruin her life.
(3/?) how we met: the friend and i met on wattpad (ik how cliche). i dmed her saying i enjoyed her stories and that she was really talented. ofc, she replied nicely and said that i was way too sweet. keep in mind, she was a very popular writer in the finn fandom and she had a lot
(4/?) when we first started dming, she was a bit strange, but i did not question it because i do not judge people nor do i point out if they make me feel uncomfortable
(5/?) but around the time of my birthday *dec 25th*, a few days before, she msged me asking if i wanted to be added into a group chat. i said yes. when she added me in, everything felt super sweet and positive. i even met two of my best friends that i still talk to in that chat.
(6/?) but then, things started to get a bit weird. one of my best friends in that group chat made a video edit and she dedicated it to me and a few others. the friend (let’s call her ‘D’), let’s just say... she got offended when she wasn’t tagged in the edit...
(7/?) being the clueless person i was, i told D “sis it’s not that deep you’ll get tagged next time” and instead of moving on, she dmed me and started to harass me about the fact she wasn’t tagged. she said that my best friend didn’t ‘know’ me enough and that i didn’t deserve it
(8/?) i obviously was very baffled and just apologized to get things over with. after i did, everything was fine afterwards. THEN, JUST a few days later, something else stirred up and this was the first red flag i noticed from D and her acts
(9/?) so, as a wattpad writer, i was publishing a new application fic book based off disney and i was super excited for it. D kept asking when it was gonna be released, and i told her the date it would be out. ofc, she was excited. but things got a bit out a hand two days later
(10/?) she asked me again, but privately *weird* when the book was gonna be released. i said to her ‘i already told you the date like 50 times but it’s __’ and i added that i felt pressured by her to publish the book and that i needed time. but guess what she did.
(11/?) she called me a “manipulator” and that i need to “work harder” on the book. she called me this bc she was working on some of the story’s edits that she OFFERED to do for me and for story promotion. but the fact i said i felt pressured and she immediately like switched...
(12/?) obviously this situation ended by me apologizing and saying i’d work harder. i honestly do not remember anything that happened after that, but then, we had a huge argument in march right on the 13th before quarantine was confirmed
(13/?) it all happened once she made an edit about her best friends. while she was, she sent certain audios and said which ones would look good with the edit she was making next. i was very happy to hear she added me into the friends edit but things changed that day
(14/?) to return the favor, i made a friendship edit as wel and added her into it. but her being the degrading person that she is, she got mad when i made a friendship edit. why? i am not sure. but she got mad bc she claimed i “stole her idea” and her “audio” for the edit.
(15/?) when this happened, of course i was angry and sick of all the arguments she caused with me. i talked to D’s best friend *let’s call her A* and said that she was getting on my nerves but i won’t spill bc i was better than that. but A ruined our friendship.
(16/?) A sent her the screenshot of me talking about D to D herself and D got very angry with me and called me names. but this happened LITERALLY during the passing of my father and D had no sympathy for me or gave me a break or anything. i was already dealing w shit.
(17/?) D started an entire argument with me, but NOT ONLY THAT, she publicly humiliated me and cyberbullied me in front of all of her friends in that group chat we were in together. and also, i dmed D asking her if we could ressolve this privately but she left me on seen-
(18/?) she literally ignored my request because i have really terrible anxiety, especially in arguments. she IGNORED the fact i was having a panic attack, and she IGNORED my request to discuss it all in private.
(19/?) so in this public group chat, she called me names and cyberbullied me *she called me a ‘bipolar fuck’ btw lol* and not only that too. she added her personal friend into the conversation and D claimed i was “talking shit” about her as well and that A isn’t the only person
(20/?) literally, D had no evidence that i was talking shit about her but yet she managed to say i was and that she was “psychic” and could “spot liars from miles away”...
(21/?) this all happened in like march so i unfortunately do not have any screenshots but for recent events, i actually do have proof
(22/?) and her getting mad at me and publicly bullying me is one thing. but this is where things get super hurtful and serious, so please be cautioned.
(23/?) tw // s*icide.
D accused me of faking an account on wattpad that recently took their life back in march. she said i was the “blueprint” behind that acc bc the person’s name was also stella & the middle name was *D’s name*
D accused me of faking an account on wattpad that recently took their life back in march. she said i was the “blueprint” behind that acc bc the person’s name was also stella & the middle name was *D’s name*
(24/?) as a person who survived through that, this deeply offended me and i could JUST TELL the stella i was friends with would not like what she said. D also claimed, however to be their friend, and that she knew them. but clearly, she did not. why would she accuse me of faking?
(25/?) why would she accuse me of something so serious, knowing my history??? like what the literal fuck went through her head at that point
(26/?) so we stopped being friends for a moment of time after that happened. she switched accounts and completely moved on while i struggled and cried every night because of her and her disturbing and vile behavior.
(27/?) before i continue, i just want to introduce my best friend, nia ( @vioIetsgf) who is also a victim of D and her cruel ways and behavior.
(28/?) this is what D has to done to nia. don’t even try and tell me that D isn’t a shitty person bc of what nia confessed to me. we knew each other since march and she was the only person that was kind to me. bless her and i love u nia :(
(29/?) fuck it. here’s a name reveal: her name is des.
(30/?) but des didn’t just invalidate nia and i and other people. she went on, behind my back, to say that i wasn’t a true friend to her and that all i did was lie and talk shit about her. well then. two can play.
(31/?) who was the one staying up on SCHOOL nights in a unsafe household for you and spoke to you about your issues and situations? WHO fucking helped you go back into your own household after what you told me and encourged you and validated you?!
(32/?) me. i did. i helped her through most of her problems before march 13th and i gave her so much support. however, she refuses to give support whenever her friends are struggling... remember what nia said. y’all see a pattern?
(33/?) nia also said that des assumed nia had a CRUSH on her and that nia was only her friend bc of the claimed attraction towards her. knowing nia, i can come and say des is wrong. she shouldn’t flatter herself
(34/?) i am currently gathering more evidence and proof from other victims of her’s.
(35/?) des isn’t just self-centered and entitled, but she’s also very hyprocritical and only focuses on her sole benefit. whenever someone is ranting, she refuses to support them. she sends edits instead.
(36/?) after i stopped being her friend for the time being, she got into some drama with my other friend, who i will not name. here are the screenshots of what happened. basically just proof that she gets mad over the little things.
(37/?) keep in mind, she also calls people names. i took out the person they were talking abt due to protecting their privacy. but des wanted to be apart of a grp, she didn’t get in and she got mad about it. but she still shit-talked the leader of the grp even tho she hates drama
(38/?) clearly, she’s a hypocrite and does NOT stand by her words.
(39/?) she was even added into a mental health gc and all she did was self-promote and talk about things that the gc didn’t allow. gc members warned her not to promote but she continued doing it— and got kicked out for it. so she is a bit sus
(40/?) during the break, however, des got into a lot of comotion with others on the internet AGAIN and here are some screens providing her immaturity and pure manipulation. it goes from down to up.
(41/?) tw // sl*t shaming
then, we have @ARWENINNIT ‘s side of how des took advantage of her. she also said des sl*t shamed her.
then, we have @ARWENINNIT ‘s side of how des took advantage of her. she also said des sl*t shamed her.
(42/?) so clearly, i found all of this out after her and i stopped becoming friends. i was so shocked and disgusted to find out what she has done to others, but she ended up coning back and i regret ever speaking to her since.
(43/?) in june-july, des ended up adding my friends and i into a gc and tried to talk things out by using methods of manipulation and guilt tripping. she would ask what we did wrong but then immediately begin twisting our words and blaming her issues on us. i sent paragraphs and
(44/?) explaining how she made me feel and what she’s done to me but she continued to ignore and NEVER apologized even though i apologized to her and i don’t believe i did anything wrong to this day. but she used tactics by crying in voice memos and then, we were friends again.
(45/?) we were friends for a longer time, but then, recently. things spiraled and after this, i cannot believe i was ever her friend and i hate myself for falling into her traps.
(46/?) so if you were not updated or aware, wattpad was hacked and had over 220M users’ info leaked onto the dark web. which led to accounts getting deleted or people getting logged out and forced to change their passwords. when this was going on, des was inactive
(47/?) so we informed her and told her wattpad was having some issues. she was one of the people who had her account logged out but for some reason, wattpad would not allow her back into her account. SOLELY because of our issues in the past, des blamed this on me and said
(48/?) she blamed her account getting deleted ON ME. even though i never had information to her account or ever intended on trying to get onto her account in any way. she claimed i hacked her. even though we were FRIENDS.
(49/?) so, yes, i have screens of her blaming the account’s disappearance on me. here they are. she refused to believe me (which is her issue i know that) but i told her in the past that wattpad is having issues and she yet ignored that.
