I am 24 years old. I do not completely understand social cues of when someone needs a hug or needs to be held. When I see someone upset I clean, I cook, I do what I can to make life simpler for the person. how can u get mad at me bc I can’t read ur mind & know u need a hug?

it’s not my love language to be held or touched most of the time it just makes me uncomfortable I understand it is some people’s language of love but it is not something I easily pick up on it’s not fair to blame/get mad at someone bc they don’t show love the way you want them to

It’s so frustrating bc I don’t understand my problem with being held or holding others. occasionally I can tolerate it and only from a few people but I’m not a mind reader if you need a hug from me I’ve gotta be told forreal. like uve known me for 24 years now I mean???