So because someone decided to tweet unasked for advice:

For any trans person, dating a cis person is like any woman dating a cis man. It& #39;s a risky proposition, so take steps to protect yourself. Only disclose you& #39;re trans if you think it& #39;s safe to do so.

If you don& #39;t think it& #39;s safe to disclose, get the heck out of there.

If you do go on a date, make sure your friends and any relevant family know who you& #39;re with, where you& #39;re going and what the license plate is (if applicable).

Cis people have been randomly harassing me with "you have to disclose you& #39;re trans if you want to date anyone" nonsense for over a decade now. If this is what they& #39;re like online to total strangers, meeting these triffids in person risks much worse.

Be safe.

I don& #39;t mean to imply murder here, btw. Possible violence, getting stranded, etc.

Also, if you take steps and something still happens, it& #39;s absolutely not and never can be your fault. It& #39;s always the fault of whoever harms you.

The onus should be on others to not harm anyone.