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Dating a Nigerian guy from a privileged family is emotional intelligence boot camp 
when someone is used to having everything their way easily and you fall into that narrative, you wonât be valued. Courtship always has to be on your terms - or else you will be a full time clown
when someone is used to having everything their way easily and you fall into that narrative, you wonât be valued. Courtship always has to be on your terms - or else you will be a full time clown
It took me almost 2 years to learn, unlearn before I could finally retire my clown suit. Many premium tears were shed. But the best thing for me was being surrounded by people who encouraged me to focus my energy on my work. Guess what - the same guys chase after a winning babe
On the other hand, a guy who has hustled for everything and thinks youâre the one will likely bring that same energy to winning you. These guys normally even spend more on their women because theyâve put so much work in (also the money is theirs, they donât need to consult daddy)
However in every category there are clowns and kings - so itâs up to you to sharpen your emotional intelligence to know the difference. I wish Erica had taken her time to observe because Kiddâs moves are straight out of the playbook.
