Dating a Nigerian guy from a privileged family is emotional intelligence boot camp when someone is used to having everything their way easily and you fall into that narrative, you won’t be valued. Courtship always has to be on your terms - or else you will be a full time clown

It took me almost 2 years to learn, unlearn before I could finally retire my clown suit. Many premium tears were shed. But the best thing for me was being surrounded by people who encouraged me to focus my energy on my work. Guess what - the same guys chase after a winning babe

On the other hand, a guy who has hustled for everything and thinks you’re the one will likely bring that same energy to winning you. These guys normally even spend more on their women because they’ve put so much work in (also the money is theirs, they don’t need to consult daddy)

However in every category there are clowns and kings - so it’s up to you to sharpen your emotional intelligence to know the difference. I wish Erica had taken her time to observe because Kidd’s moves are straight out of the playbook.