i think nonlesbians don’t understand accepting lesbianism was so difficult because so many of us struggled with comphet so badly that we used micro labels to justify men in our attraction in some capacity. the relief to let go of men is so LIBERATING like a burden is GONE
and for nonbinary lesbians, a lot of us realized our gender once we accepted the lesbian label. at least for me i knew there was some gender shit there that i couldn’t realize until i accepted being a lesbian, my only connection to womanhood is thru loving women
i’m starting to reach some confused/questioning people, and i cant reply to everyone though i want to, so i hope the “am i a lesbian?” masterdoc can help! https://docs.google.com/document/d/e/2PACX-1vT3f5IIzt5PG-M7G9_Z-gjY4gZaiUneTdMlYrFAcdBGcJo0-N-RDQcj2JfxOaBTxKa6J_DiDQNgqVpg/pub