Am I the only one who find it really weird and just wrong how some ppl(yes by people I mean guys, well 90% of the cases maybe) will share and show other ppl nudes they’ve received from someone? Ok I wanna explain why I feel this way so please hear me out. Especially if ur a guy

Ok so ik some of u guys reading this might have done this in the past and no that doesn’t make u a terrible person. Because I would like to think that most guys that do this are not doing it with the INTENTION of hurting the person and might justify it orconsider it harmless 2/?

But in reality it isnt harmless at all. U might think “oh well the person is never gonna find out so why does it matter?” That could be true yes but nevertheless it’s a matter of trust and integrity cus I think we can rather safely PRESUME that most people don’t want their 3/?

Nudes being shared and showed to anyone but the person they’re sending it to?! Like think about it if ur sending nudes to someone urself u probably don’t want the person showing that to their friends for obvious reasons. And the second argument I’ve heard sometimes from guys 4/?

Can sometimes be along the lines of (this is ridiculous yes but u’d be surprised of how stupid ppl can be) “well she didn’t say or make it clear that I couldn’t share them” and as I said earlier I think it’s very safe to say that MOST ppl (yes there are exceptions) DO NOT 4/?

DO NOT want their nudes to be shared!!! And if u really really want to share these nudes you have received for whatever reason that might be!?? (Confusion) Make sure you have asked for permission at least once and DONT do it in a leading or pressuring manner!!! It’s sort of a 6/?

Sort of a grey-zone cus even if you have asked for permission and this person has given u that u really have to make sure that they’re 100% sure and really dont care. Because this person might be really into u and is scared of upsetting you or just scared of conflicts in general

And will give u permission for that reason, idk how likely this is but still make sure they’re 100% ok with it IF you’re going to share them with someone. Or u could just not do it but idk ppl are into different stuff and I don’t judge, usually.