I was thinking about deactivating but instead I'm just going to say what's bothering me

please don't:

tell me I should drink alcohol or do drugs when I say I'm having a hard time I have a lot of trauma related to being exposed to drug and alcohol use and they also make me worse

dont make sexual remarks on my tweets that have nothing to do with sex, Especially under pics of my cats, even if u think its a joke

there's a handful of people I'm comfortable making what could be seen as sexual jokes with, but seeing that isn't an invitation for you to join in

I fluctuate on how I like to present, and if I post a feminine selfie that doesn't mean I want people being horny at me, I'm usually posting them to help with my self image

I use any pronouns but prefer not to be called things like girl or queen or other really feminine terms

there's other stuff but these are the big ones

I have never felt comfortable setting boundaries because I've spent my whole life waiting to get rejected from whatever group I'm in because of my social and mental issues, but I feel like these are reasonable things to ask

I've realized I've spent my whole life learning how not to be seen as different or awkward to the point I just avoided social interactions at whatever cost and probably have developed a phobia of it tbh and just dealt with being made uncomfortable and becoming a shut in

its a small thing but I think actually expressing things that make me uncomfortable here is a start