It makes me upset, especially for women, that being single is such a thing to be ashamed of. Do you know how interesting you are as an individual?? Why dilute that with someone who doesn& #39;t suit you?

I am at my most interesting, and most INTERESTED when my time is not consumed by another person. Maybe that& #39;s a codependency that I need to unlearn but then I& #39;m taking time and space to unlearn it https://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="🤷🏻‍♀️" title="Achselzuckende Frau (heller Hautton)" aria-label="Emoji: Achselzuckende Frau (heller Hautton)">

Relationships make me complacent. Do you know how many books I& #39;ve read as a single woman?? Shit toooons. Because I have a desire to become someone I want to shag https://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="😂" title="Gesicht mit Freudentränen" aria-label="Emoji: Gesicht mit Freudentränen">. When you& #39;re in a relationship you& #39;ve already got someone shagging you https://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="🤷🏻‍♀️" title="Achselzuckende Frau (heller Hautton)" aria-label="Emoji: Achselzuckende Frau (heller Hautton)">. There& #39;s slower personal development

My babe Florence Given has taught me that being with anyone who you& #39;re not totally 100% absolutely into means that you& #39;re distracting yourself from becoming the person you are absolutely meant to be. And who tf wants to avoid that?