It makes me upset, especially for women, that being single is such a thing to be ashamed of. Do you know how interesting you are as an individual?? Why dilute that with someone who doesn't suit you?

I am at my most interesting, and most INTERESTED when my time is not consumed by another person. Maybe that's a codependency that I need to unlearn but then I'm taking time and space to unlearn it

Relationships make me complacent. Do you know how many books I've read as a single woman?? Shit toooons. Because I have a desire to become someone I want to shag . When you're in a relationship you've already got someone shagging you . There's slower personal development

My babe Florence Given has taught me that being with anyone who you're not totally 100% absolutely into means that you're distracting yourself from becoming the person you are absolutely meant to be. And who tf wants to avoid that?