My heart truly breaks for kiddrica . I understand how both of them feel but more importantly how it affects love hopefuls . Thread #bbnaija

A huge part of #bbnaija show is the relationships in the house because people love Love . Research has shown that over 90% of the “shippers” demographic are single people who draw hope that someday they would find someone who cares and loves them the same way bbn couples do

Erica wants more commitment from Kiddwaya which is perfectly normal because women are fundamentally wired that way . She currently feels she isn’t getting the love and respect she deserves having “mentally and physically “ committed to Kiddwaya even though she keeps denying it

Kiddwaya on the other hand has actually fallen in too deep and he is scared to death of commitment because he claims “He’s not that kinda guy “ . Unknowingly to Erica, It’s actually beyond the physical connection . That has been shown from gestures such as breakfast in bed etc

Kidd is honest enough to know He’d probably cheat on Erica outside the house (or even inside, who knows? )but you can only “cheat” when you have made a commitment! He loves Erica too much to hurt her that way but He cannot stop her from making physical connections with him

Because he is obviously into her that way .That could be interpreted as selfish but remember they are all locked down ! He can’t just walk away. He has been honest about his personality from the onset. What Kidd doesn’t realize is that he can actually Stay committed to one woman

Kidd has constantly judged himself based on his past experiences and has come to the conclusion that He will always be a Player ! But Big brother has offered him a perfect opportunity to change and he’s been doing a good job of it without even realizing it. He has had his eyes

He has had his eyes on Nengi for the longest time . You see the way he stares at her ass helplessly. He desires that body but he has stayed exclusive to Erica .The social experiment #bbnaija is actually working . Most times , Men like Kidd change as they grow older (not always

Erica is doing the right thing by putting her foot down and demanding more but that should be put in perspective. She shouldn’t think that the kisses and intense make out would be a bait for Kidd to commit . Even if he does because of that, the foundation is wrong

Sex or anything “physical” should be a by-product of a relationship and not a prequiste or requirement. The reason why she was mentally attracted to Laycon is because they were building a great friendship devoid of the initial physical attraction . That might be difficult to

to build with Kidd now because they have already gone physical but not impossible. To achieve that , she needs to learn how to be emotionally independent. How not to let her happiness be dependent on anyone. She shouldn’t make the mistake of trying to rebound with anyone

Or getting anyone to fill Kidd’s emotional shoe. She should focus on reminding herself how amazing she is , stop second guessing herself and start loving herself more . If only she knew the amount of love she has outside of the house , that might help her to focus

She desires to be loved , to be wanted , emphasis on “WANTED” ( google her story ) but that doesn’t have to come from an intimate relationship. In conclusion , shippers ... brace yourselves, This love story has only begun ...Thanks for coming to my TED talk . #herodaniels

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