My analysis of Erica - a thread. #bbnaija

How you grow up has a lot to do with your adulthood. Her father's abandonment and the lack of real family love might have affected her way more than we think. As a result, she wants to feel loved, wanted and desired.

That's why she seems to always want to be at peace with everyone. That's why she wants loyalty from everyone she holds dear. That's why she smiles a lot (probably to look approachable by everyone).

Her nature would always seek reassurance from people, because even if they are

doing enough, she would still have that little voice in her head, telling her she isn't loved. It's not her fault, it is what her upbringing her installed into her brain. People who have that kind of shaky background can attest to this.

It's really dicey for her.

Whoever would be with her romantically has his work cut out for him because he has to do a whole lot to make her truly believe that he is genuine. She has to hear reassuring words consistently. Acts of service won't do because that's mostly what she got from her mother

She would always crave words, crave to be defended, crave loyalty, crave heart to heart connection with someone she loves. Anything other than that would always hurt her and make her feel like she isn't special because that's all she felt growing up.

That's where the Laycon and

Kiddwaya dilemma comes in. She likes Laycon because he seems to genuinely like her(talking to her hence mental attraction) however, she isn't in love with him. The person she is in love with is more invested in acts of service.

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... and that's because of his own childhood. I feel Kiddwaya genuinely likes Erica. But for them to work, both of them really need to understand why the other party is the way he/she is and with that, determine if they are ready to put in the sacrifice to go all the way

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