I'm a little sad this morning, waking to the news of yet another member of the erotica #WritingCommunity having flat out lied and deceived for their own amusement and gain.

Three times this has happened. You can say all you want about "pen names" and "privacy"...

...but in all three cases these people lied and used those lies to sext with or gain the trust of members of this community. If you were one of the people impacted here or there, I offer my sincerest sympathies...

I did not interact with any of these 3 people privately & I still feel misled and hurt. It has me rethinking every interaction I've had here.

In the BDSM/erotica world, trust is paramount.

I promise to always be as authentic as possible. Let me lay it all out there for you...

My name really is Jaimee. It's not a pen name. I'm a 28 year old female. I have a husband & a child. I write erotica. I write sexual wellness and health articles as well as psychology articles.

I understand not everyone has the luxury of being this open (for multiple reasons).

I just wanted to let you know that I really am me. And I will try to be as honest as possible here. Always.

I also wanted to list some others in this community that I know are fucking genuine, wonderful people.

@eloisahilton
@TSubmissive
@lemon_letters
@markie_monroe

It's sad my list is short. But these are people in the writing community I trust.

Who do you trust? If you can, tag someone you trust in our #erotica community.

Instead of focusing on yet another deceit, let's lift up those who deserve it

Sorry for the long thread
Much love