It pains me so much how we& #39;re lying to/getting lied to by the people we love cos we don& #39;t know how to receive feedback. Our relationships will improve DRASTICALLY if we can just listen. But we& #39;re so busy being butthurt cos we think we& #39;re the best/ our good intentions are enough.

The truth only comes out when we fight/there& #39;s a blow up/break up. Cos we don& #39;t know how to separate the person from the issue, so we can give & receive feedback in a way that doesn& #39;t ruin the relationship. We lie to save face. Then when they hear from outside, feelings are hurt

It now becomes "so should I have head on Twitter?" point being completely missed. How else should they have told you, pray tell. The one they told you, what happened? What& #39;s your preferred feedback process? Does it even exist? Or you& #39;re the best to ever do it? Okay ooo